I am a 38 year old BBW married to Ken and we have no trouble finding willing participants in our lifestyle. Many more people these days, men especially, are admitting that they are attracted to BBW. Most people are attracted to personality, attitude, confidence and smiles. Most people are just looking for a good time. If you look like you are having a good time people want to hang out with you, in the bedroom and out. Have fun. If they are just in it for appearances they are the ones missing out.