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starlinn

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  1. Ain't that the truth! Several years ago, I went to see a Doctor for my wrist swelling. I had started a secretary job, and the typing they required started some inflammation in my left wrist. I thought a high dose of an anti inflammatory would do the trick, but had to see the Doc to get it. He examined me, my wrist, and other areas and told me that I was in the last stages of syphilis before brain damage! I sat there for a second, in shock, got up off the examining table, told the Doctor he was full of shit, and walked out. He followed me out of the room, asking what I thought it was. Told him, funny, but that was what I was paying 40 bucks for. Should have known better to see him. He also told me my daughter had strep throat at her physical. I looked at her throat and said, no, that is from the barbeque chips she ate on the way to the doctors office. Sheeesh...and they go to school for how long?????
  2. I have to agree with most everyone that posted here. I do not agree there is any reason for it to happen. You gave him a chance the first time, (some would not have), and since you had swung with him before, I am sure that he knew his limits. I have a fantasy to have DP, but, when it came down to it, and I was not confortable with it, should someone keep trying, they are stepping over the limit! I also think that a woman knows when a "direct hit to the south" and "misjudgement in aim" happens. I am sending you a virtual hug for what you have went through. I hope that you will reconsider meeting and swinging with him again. Truely, is this a direct attack against single males? I dont think so. Any male, single or married, could have done the same thing. Women also. I am sure there are things that males don't like done to them. I think it is about stepping over the limits.
  3. Brie, I have never seen it put that way, but you hit the nail on the head!
  4. There are two things children need. They need to explore their world, but need a comfort zone. When something like that comes up, their first thought is about themselves. It is selfish in their 12 year old way. I wouldn't bring up the subject, but if it does come up, let her know that no matter what you and dad love her, and will always be there for her, and what you do during adult time does not affect her in any way. If she wants further explanation, tell her you will explain when she gets older. I went to the circus recently with my 23 year old daughter. There were a lot of women with nice bodies and very little clothing. I was critiquing them, not realizing what I was doing, until my daughter asked me why was I so into women's bodies. I had to dance around that...and made me realize that I had to be careful. I hope everything works out for you.
  5. We used to be one of those couples who didnt allow kissing. Because we were relatively new at a MFF, I didnt know how I would react to it. My hubby, on the other hand, needed it, so we came to a compromise. If at anytime, I feel unconfortable with him kissing another, I would give him a signal. The first time we were with another female, he went for it, and not only didnt I mind, it excited me! We still have the boundry of confort for me, but now I cant even remember what the signal is. If another person has that boundry we do respect it though, it would not be a reason to not play with them.
  6. My question here is how did you go four years without telling your husband that you were "Taking One For the Team?" I can understand that he may be a little aggrivated at you because he wants to expand your experiences, and you want to stop in your tracks. I can also understand how it may be confusing to him, that all along you have participated, then all of a sudden you say you were only doing it to please him. This would be a hard pill for me to swallow too. I commend you honesty with him, but please understand that he is probably bewildered by past experiences that you participated in . When I was reading your post, I got the feeling that the lifestyle is not out of the question, just that you want to take it a little slower. It seems that you feel there is no need to play EVERY time you go to the club or party. Is the fact that he goes with the intent to play every time the factor that is bothering you?
  7. Dito to this..if all do not agree, it is a no go. There should be no hurt feelings.
  8. I wonder what my avitar is doing to Paramour. I am addicted to him. I find myself looking for his posts when I come on....
  9. Hello and Welcome to the board! I look forward to your opinions and thoughts here. I only hope that you are here for discussion, and not judgement.
  10. DaveNSheila ~What an unfortunate experience for you. My thoughts are with his family, and also for you both. Life is so fragile and precious. It is hard to imagine something like that happening.
  11. I like anal, but it has to be apart of some night long play. It does take some patience on the "analer's" part. If you have never tried anal, and are curious about it, there are some sex toys that you could start off with. A slim, short butt plug is a nice starting toy. I have seen bigger toys, but they are definatly not for me. Would I participate anal with another partner, I dont know. They would really have to be the right size, and have some experience. BTW...anal with clit stimulation is an AWESOME orgasam!!
  12. D Girl Yes, I consider what your husband did cheating. Did you know when you went out and met this girl, that the end result was that he would fucking her? I am the type of person that thinks "Wow, how would I feel if my husband did that" Being somewhat experienced, if the plan was to have a MFF, and I passed out, if I woke up and found my husband fucking the perspective participant in our adventure, I would consider that he cheated on me, because it was without my knowledege.
  13. D Girl, This is the best thing for you to do. You are going through all the emotions that a person who has been cheated on goes through (shock, insecurity, anger, revenge...) I am glad that you are working it out, and it sounds like the walls are falling and the communication between you both is opening up. Please continue to talk about these things, but, do me a favor. You say you believe what your husband says. Do not continue to ask for every detail. You are just opening yourself up for more pain. I wish you both the very best. I hope, in the future, that you both can experience your fantasies and desires together. You are a team in everything that you do.
  14. I think, besides the usual ones (skat, children, animals, showers, etc...) I do not like being called names. I am not a slut, whore, cunt, and all those other words. If you want to tell me how much you enjoy fucking me, letting me know what I can do to make it better for you, that would be great, but dont end it with "you fucking whore."
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