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  1. Thanks Wildwife for that last comment - we concur! As for the basic question - First off - setting the boundaries is important, and anyone not willing to play bo the rules you set isn't for you. Having said that - where is the creative thinking here??? There is plenty for the second woman to do aside from nail filing and watching. Most pussies can only accomodate one cock at a time -- so there's opportunity there. There's always kissing, ball stroking, tag-team blow jobs, the sexual cong line -- come on ladies, you're swingers - think outside the box! Let's face it, when you swing, you live a little outside the box already. As for feeling selfish for getting involved -- well that's what threesomes with single males are made for - if we're with a couple, we assume that everyone is there to play, and there is room for everyone on the bed/couch/floor. As for me (Mrs. Openva), I'm what I call bi-curious-light (which is similar to playfully adaptive) so I don't take offense to accidental touching. Straight females who play with couples should expect a little accidentalness (just like straight men in the situation) so like what was said above, ignore it and move on. Look for somewhere to fit in - a free hand, an unoccupied cock, a tounge with nothing to do - use your imagination.
  2. That'll do it... It took me a couple of days to shake the feelings from the dream off... It was that vivid
  3. Well iit definitly sounds as if there is soemthing you 2 need to talk about. Try talking the dream over with him. I had a similar dream once , similiar in the fact that I woke up pissed at my wife, and I was all day. I'm glad I was able to stay focused on the fact that it was a dream, other wise things could have been really ugly. The only thing that seemed to help was talking the dream over with her. Could it be that you might be feeling that you are not getting enough attention lately? Maybe it's just a manifestation of the fear of being that jealous and insecure? only way to find out is talk it over.
  4. While I was single I picked-up a bus driver in NYC, does that count? She gave the best blowjobs.. She still rates in the top 5 of all time for me.
  5. We don't mind if a single friend (not that we have one now) calls us to see if we want to play. But if we find that the only time we hear from or see them is when they are looking to get laid... Then we'll let them know that we don't find that acceptable
  6. That is how we always kind of pictured it as well. Well if no one is complaining then everything is fine . Please don't misunderstand the question though. My wife has a good time either way. But I was looking to illicit a response for the women on the board and what their preference was. I know a preference does not preclude a good time. I was just curious to hear what the ladies on the board had to say.
  7. I have found that this differs with the individual. I have had many homosexual friends that acknowledged a diffrence between the two and just as many who swear there is no diffrence. From some of our discussions, those that acknowledged a diffrence seemed to refer to the more effemanit (pretty sure I spelled that wrong) as gay men and the more masculine as those who were men that were gay.
  8. These 2 paragraphs in particular strike a cord with me. In my younger days I experimented with bisexuality. How ever I found that I enjoyed women much more then men. Men no longer have a sexual charge for me unless engaged in the sex act with a women, but it is the act it self that the charge is centered on. At the same time I can admire and enjoy observing the male form (this is not some hidden refrence to a mans package ). I also agree with the statment about equality. But I think that it goes deeper then that. For true equality to be a reality the double standards need to be removed as well. There can not be one set of standards for men in a chosen field or profession and a seperate one for women. The playing field needs to be level. The requirements the same for all. The physical requirements for a particular field of endevour do not change just because the gender of the aspirents is diffrent. A realistic evaluation of what the minium requirements for a particular endevour are needs to be made and those are the standards that all should be held to. Unfortunetly this is easier said then done as ego tends to get in the way.
  9. I'm just curious How other people feel about This. When you decide to play with others how long do you usually like to go? My wife and I are into marathon sessions (with breaks of course). What about you? one or 2 orgasams and your done for the night? or do you go until everyone is totaly spent? I'm the type that as long as I am awake I can keep going. Another question just for the ladies. Which do you prefer more. a guy who can go for a really long time or someone who cums kind of quick but can keep coming back for more? My wife is the type that much prefers a guy who cums faster but can keep coming back for more. She just really enjoys when a guy cums, so the more often he does the more she she enjoys it. That is as long as he can keep going after the first couple of times. She has repeatdly told me how frustrated she gets with guys who just keep going with out cumming. That works for me because more often then not I cum a little faster then I would like but I rarely lose my erection and even if I do, I recover it quickly. There are occasions though when I can go for awhile and not cum. But she has told me that while she likes it when I can go a bit longer she enjoys it much more when I cum a bit faster and more often.
  10. Right now it's definitely not as often as we would like... ideally we would like to be something that just happens naturally when the right people are together... Not necessarily so much in the way of planning... But I guess that only happens after you have some steady friends in the lifestyle.
  11. I'm 80% an inside guy.. I just like the feel of my orgasam better that way. Unfortunetly sometimes with oral I squirm to much when I cum so trying to keep it in her mouth doesn't work very well... Kind of like tring to stay on a mechanical bull. My wife is also an 80% inside type. She really likes the feel of someone cumming inside her vagina or her mouth. Though there are occasoins that she likes to watch a man cum just keep it out of her face and she is a happy camper. When it comes to other guys with her I am the same way.. mainly because I like to get in her right after and add my share. But I do like watching another man lose it on her stomach or breasts occosionally. With her and other men she is pretty much the same way. She still hasn't made up her mind on which she prefers with me and other women.. mainly because we haven't had as many experinces where other women were involved and the couple that we were with didn't get quite that far.
  12. It is this very attitude that brought my wife and I into the lifestyle, and it is reading posts like this that have kept us from being totaly disheartned because so far we have run into people who think more along the line of cheaters then swingers. we have met some nice people, but more often then not it has been the cheater types.. I think that has more to do with where we were looking.. but we are looking else where now.
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