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coolwetbreeze

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  1. This is a great question... I've noticed that every time we've gotten together with someone after we wind up at the house, hotel or where ever , that we will sit around and talk until the cows come home if I didn't finally just get up and say "soooo...Let's do this" as I walk away taking my shirt off. That usually gets everyone moving. He would prefer I go into the room and change into something slutty, come back into the living room and lay on the coffee table spread eagle. I figure this would only work with single men and we don't do the single guy thing too often. We've never tried any games. Each situation is different and if you are comfortable enough to go rub up against the other guy or girl I say go for it. My preference is to start with my guy and then reach out to the other(s). I'm sure in most situations the women are the ones that need to start things moving.
  2. SLS also has a forum page..They also have the chat room...I would let as many people know as possible that this guy is a loser. ...Also let the web master know. He may not want this guy on his site. I think you should let him come over one more time just so you can kick his ass....Just kidding
  3. Oh my gosh...are we with the same man or what? I thought I had the only selfish ass hole out there. I guess they are all over. I too have been given the "If you don't want to do what I want, when I want and with who I want" then we may as well not see each other....I love you but this is what I want and if you aren't with me then I guess we need to go our seperate ways...I said Ok...and Good night. I have told him it is perfectly fine with me if he wants to go play with others with out me. He says he wants to enjoy it with me....Yeah right. What he means is he won't be able to do it with out me because he won't be wanted as a single male. We are not married and do not live in the same place so it is easy for me to just blow him off. I still have my own place and although I care for him,I don't have to have him as part of my life. We too are on different levels as far as the lifestyle go. Your boyfriend sounds just like mine. They are sex addicts.They cannot function with out the thrill of outside sex in a relationship. We can handle that but it has to be at our pace...these two little boys are so worried about their willies that that is all that matters. If at all possible i would turn the tables and tell him that if he doesn't change his attitude you will end the relationship...it may be for the best even if it is hard to do. My guy needs a whore...not a swing partner. I know he loves me but he loves himself and that liitle boy in him more. They are both in it for themselves and could care less about our feelings . As long as they get what they want and if we make it easy for them it will never change...Good Luck Tigerfly
  4. Like Teresa I have tried the product "Instead". I have never met anyone else that has ever heard of it...I came across it quite by accident one day in my Target store and tried it out. I haven't used it while having sex but I'm glad to hear that it works...that was the whole reason I wanted to try it in the first place...Ladies, if the thought of you reaching in and pulling it out with all that stored up blood will bother you then I would not recommend it for you...My daughter said No WAY!! I am lucky enough to have a man that doesn't care if it is that time or not...I don't always feel sexy during that time but it sure is nice knowing that when I do want to and sometimes I really want to (must be the hormone thing going)that he is Up for it I can't say that I would want to play with a new couple while I was on it though. Even if the guy says he wouldn't mind, I would.
  5. One thing we would never do is play with a married man. I have had men write and say the wife knows and says it's ok...I say so what...I could say I was Lady Di reincarnated but it wouldn't mean it was true. For the couples that swing with a man and know he is a married man they are just as bad as the cheater. They are more concerned with their genitals as you are. You say you love your wife and thats great. I'm sure she appreciates that. But if you really loved your wife you would not put your penis first...She would be first and so we have to wonder. You stated your opinion and your thoughts for all you married men out there cheating. And it's great that some people felt the need to private message you and send you e-mails with out going thru the board to give you the positive encouragment you need to make you think you are right in what you are doing. But what does that say about them...Most likely the ones that wrote were the couples that play with married men and the sorry ass married men that cheat.
  6. Hi...me again...I agree with NJbicouple but didn't want to state you need to get out of this marriage because none of us know why another person stays with one another when it's abusive. Whether it is physical or mental,you are the only one that can determine how much you are willing to take...As I said before,he tries to manipulate you into wanting this because he wants it so bad. Well, let him have it...tell him to go out as a married man playing without his wife and see how far he gets. Or better yet let him be a single man playing(or trying to)and let him get rejected over and over again because there are thousands to choose from...Without YOU he is going to have a hard time being allowed into the lifestyle. Without YOU, he will realize that he is not all that and maybe then he will get his priorities straight.. I don't think it matters what your husbands side of the story is. We know what his side is.Plain and simple selfishness at your expense. What matters is how you feel...what you want. You period...I wish I were there to give you a big hug...
  7. Dortress...It's time to quit worrying about your husband's feelings and concentrate on your own...You don't enjoy swinging and you don't want to do it...Plain and simple. Then don't! He is trying to manipulate you into doing what he wants by the woe is me comments he's been making...You need to stop being so angry at him and yourself and realize that you are the most important thing right now 'cause he isn't thinking with the right head...STICK TO YOUR GUNS!! Let him know that you aren't interested ,period. Then don't even discuss it with him again. When he realizes you aren't kidding he will then wake up and hopefully start thinking with the right head. Concentrate on what you really want and that is the intimacy you had before. Your husband doesn't even realize that he is in the f*** mode. He thinks all he has to do is be there, insert and off he goes...He needs to realize that you need more...the fore play, the intimacy, the romance that you used to get before all the swinging took over...ok...I've rambled on enough. I agree with the other post that said you should have him read this...he will most likely get angry but oh well...it will do him good to hear from other people how selfish and unloving he is being.
  8. Ok...I'm one of those people that use HWP in my ads. I am little...5'4" 115 lbs although my boyfriend's scale says 110..(I think it's rigged) I agree with hotcpl. Everyone has an idea of what they want ...I have great "friends" that are not HWP...I love them...but I wouldn't have sex with them...I have friends with great personalities....but I wouldn't have sex with them. I think I am too thin except in certain areas where I need to burn off an inch or two of fat...Not by dieting but by doing the dreaded exercise. And to a lot of people I would not fit into their idea of a great sex partner...But that's ok with me...My guy loves me thin...I have been overweight...went up to 150 lbs with my second child. It was hell losing it because I love to eat...You choose what you eat and you choose if you want to exercise...I choose not to eat too many of the wrong things because I choose not to exercise. The people in the ads may have a killer body, but an ugly face...Well,they have to look good to me too...Who cares about the body if I don't want to look at their face...I also use the word attractive in describing us...why? Because I want to find attractive people. But that doesn't guarantee any more responses from the beautiful people...And just because I consider us attractive does not mean that you will. I know what I'm attracted too and that's what I look for.
  9. As a Female I have to say that it is not something I can do unless 1) I am very,very horny 2) I have had a lot of drinks and 3) a lot of clitoris stimulation at the same time. I haven't gotten stoned in about 20 years but I bet that could work too. I have never found that working up to it works for me. You are either ready or you aren't. Those muscles have to want to be stretched or it doesn't work. Some one needs to invent an anal ointment that ACTUALLY WORKS to lessen the pain.
  10. Gosh ..now I'm sorry I didn't visit with you when you were in San Antonio Mr Drew. Never tried big red gum. hmmm
  11. Ahhh...what a topic. And believe me,it's a good one...Most women don't ejaculate a teaspoon or more of semen (vaginal fluid in a mans mouth,regular guy). My guy, for some reason has a very pleasant tasting cum.I might add that I usually don't swallow but with him it is just natural. He takes a lot of different vitamins and eats all kinds of junk. So I don't know why he doesn't have funky spunk. But I do know that all men taste different and one in particular was absolutely terrible. I didn't even like the smell much less want to swallow. I noticed once when I was sick (sinus infection) that I also had a different taste.How do I know Drew? I'll tell you.After he was inside me I then went down on him and I could tell there was a major difference in my taste and it wasn't pleasant so I can feel for the men too. PS...it's always better with a stick of gum in your mouth. All that tingly feeling for him and extra flavor for you...
  12. She(me ) is 44 and he is 47. I haven't started yet and he's been in the lifestyle for at least 15 years. Still doing research.
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