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  1. We have intercourse during that time.. Probably Candy doesnt bleed a lot, cause it always stays pretty clean. (meaning; it should be that, cause otherwise we dont know why you shouldnt have intercourse with your hubbie) But we dont play with others during the period.. Instead.. is named differently in The Netherlands... it amazes me (candy) to read postive things about it.. first time for me! (i've only read and heard stories about the cup 'falling' out, how its impossible to place it without putting your whole hand in, or how blood stil comes out after playing it correctly :S )
  2. I will... but I thought you all were talking about specific new research data or something
  3. Hahaha thanks; that sounds less yuk!! I've the same question too... I don't really get it.
  4. Why is the 'issue' about straight women? It is never a prob to be a straight male (of nearly all the swingers I know, the males are straight), why would it be when your a straight woman? I understand what is said here (good and interesting posts lol), but do straight men have a problem, or feel left out? What's the difference?
  5. Can somebody give me a link to these statistics? Cause a lot that has been said here is totally new for me... I've asked to be tested before I slept with my bf for the first time... for herpes, hepatitis, chlamydia, HIV (did I miss something? Think I did) anyway, I've asked to be tested on all std's). Everything came out negative thank god... But nothing was said about being a carrier??? I've had some troubles with PAP (is that how you call it) but it was just irritation (can be even caused by synthetic underwear); it has been checked and it was just a little 'fungus-infection' (don't know how to call it in English sorry; but it is caused by an imbalance of the vaginal 'flora' ) which is VERY common among women... Couples we know that swing get tested nearly every 4 to 6 months. As soon as we're actively involved in swinging we will too, no doubt about it!
  6. Thanks for your post Good Times, I do appreciate it (thought I would be blown away with nasty comments..)! It appears your experiences tell a different story than mine. I've seen how insecure young women get breast-inplants, hoping to get more attention actually (what makes me feel real sad; to do this for male attention; and if you look at the porn-industry, it does give the idea men are really that superficial -sorry guys! ). I've only seen two types of changes; either these women feel even more insecure and depressed, or they really seem more secure . but go way past that by giving a VERY arrogant and cold impression (in my eyes, that shows insecurity too). It also seems as though these women keep focussing even more on their appearence. :rollseyes I know 'fat' and 'uglier' women who really look more beautiful to me, because of there radiant appearence; because they just feel good about themselves, and wouldnt dream of changing! As a bi-woman I can honestly say; A secure woman, who is happy with with who she is (identity), and who (how do you call it in english) 'shines' happiness... A face with many expressions (with or without wrinkles) attracts me a hundred times more than a 'ideal' shell with a empty inside.... (which, in my experience is quite common...) But these are MY feelings about the issue... and I respect other ideas (I should mention; I'm having a bad time concerning a family member.. maybe I'm extra pessimistic now )
  7. In 10 years, will there be any women with real ones? I'm starting to feel a little insecure with my 'beautiful 75 E cup' , because fake looks better then real? Whats the deal? it isn't fair, I dont get guys, I really dont... Why not play with 2 waterbaloons? Does that make your dick hard? (if its about enhanced fake you like; a man can buy them too, why not buy them yourself?-theres nothing feminen about them) :rollseyes You cant BUY selfesteem, you have to work on it from the inside... Arent we getting too superficial? First the bodies.. now the minds... I think things get overlooked to easily... Inplants were made for women who suffered from breastcancer (and treatment) and other breast disease. Think about thát... And sorry if I'm going way overboard, but I had to speak my mind.. -Candy
  8. The only time she mentioned some kind of a comparison with her oldest daughter (18), was when she said she prays that her daughter would be 'in safe hands' if she'd ever meet a couple to swing with.. They want to be the couple for us they hope their daughter would meet if she'd ever start swinging.. Maybe it sounds weird to some, but we really liked and understood her saying that.. -just to show it depends how you compare...
  9. The couple we play with are 36, we are 23 and 25.. with hardly any experience. They don't mind at all.. maybe find it even quite charming at some times But then again, they are people who like to start things up slow anyway, so theres no inpatience because of our age and inexperience. So, enough couples who wouldn't mind (at all), but others will..
  10. I share SexyCouple's opinion.. If it suits the person, if its not a superficial thing, and not 'overdone' (as in too many) I think it can be terrific... Somebody noted that it seems as though the person would be more open-minded, but I totally disagree.. that's what I mean by superficial.. Its a big trend, and so many people do it to look cool, to impress others, etc.. I'm pierced; navel and hood, not going to do more, and not in the face (as I feel its a personal thing), and one small tattoo.. Cane is purely 'au naturel'
  11. See I knew it.. it's all my fault! okey okey Were going to try again... we will
  12. Yes yes I know.. dont forget I had those orgasms.. And I am relaxed and used private time.. have 'explored' myself there... It isn't anything new to me.. thats why I dont get it..... Question along the line; why would you normally encounter this size in the lifestyle? Average is 14-16 cm's.. his is 21 (8 inches right?).. are cocks larger in the swingers lifestyle? Haha I'm wondering why :-D ... -I know it shouldn't have anything to do with anal... but the men it went so easy with had smaller.... thats all.. And oh yes.. muscle relaxers... well I know people in the industrie who told me, and they also sell that stuff in sex-shops (at least, in The Netherlands)...
  13. To be honest.. yes I'm glad for all of you who have great experiences... but it makes me sad a bit My story is slightly opposite; before I met my Cane I've had sexual relationships with men, and with 2 of them I've had anal sexual intercourse.. the first time I didnt even notice him come in... I loved anal.. thought it was great! But with my darlin' Cane, it just doesnt work! Times we've tried I was hot as can be, really in for it (relaxed as can be), enima before, all lubed up (and again, and again), etc.. One finger works, and by two fingers it hurts.. and three... unbearable (and I dont really care about pain, but this is a bad pain; burning, and it actually made a small cut once).. We've stopped trying a year ago.. and I'm missing it, I really want him to experience it to (for his first time).. djees I've even been at the doctor a few months ago... she said the only thing she could think of to try is change my diet.. but thats good to0 (more fibres btw)... Cane's cock is 8 inces something.. bigger then the men I was with before... but I see women in movies use bigger things sometimes.. there must be a loop hole somewhere.. okey they usually use muscle relaxents most of the time but still... I kind of gave up alltogether....
  14. Scat is with poo involved. Bukkake is when a lot of men come over you (your face) sometimes also in a glass to let you drink it.. Scat is an ICK for me.. have to think about the other things.... ohno, edit; not the other things vespertine mentioned... a lot of stuff that make people go ICK are things I would like to try before knowing... but felching, farting, DRINKING ENIMA-liquids and stuff.. no they definately make me go ICK (or is it BLURGH!) Bukkake and snowballing are things I don't know yet.. in an ideal setting with ideal people... who knows.... Candy speaking by the way Cane rather has an fantasy with gagging... and I've looked some up (also for him).... some men actually don't like the gagging alone; some movie clips are definitely made for people who get kicks from women vomiting (because of the gagging) and actually zoom in to the vomit... that's a ICK!!! for me too- I just don't get that...
  15. Thank you.. it wasn't in my dictionary... -now I know why haha.. It seemed he meant something else but now I read it.... -and so this topic is getting longer and longer..... -
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