Boy i really started some thing here.
All of your in put and ideas where and are greatly appreciated.
Yes I agree communication is the key but some times I'm afraid to let her know how I feel.
I love her very much and she doesn't do any thing sexual unless I 'm involve (no she doesn't masturbate) I just introduced a vibrator to our bed and she really got off and recently
she went to a ladies party and bought some more toys so I might be making progress.I really want to thank you all for your comments you people are the reason I want us to be involved with the life style thank you again