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2,766 ExcellentAbout Alura
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Just a hick Okie
- Birthday 12/05/1939
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Widower
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Location
Broken Arrow, Oklahoma
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Interests
cars, arts & Home & Gardens
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Occupation
self-employed
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Swinging Experience
Since 1982
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Menages in Nashville
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Mrs. Alura once said to me, "Why would a man want to fuck my ass when there's a welcoming juicy pussy right next to it?"
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I once took an attractive co-worker to dinner. I shared meals with her for the next thirty years. If anybody in the company had objected we'd have ridden into the sunset together. Nobody did.
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Women can ask questions about sex without sounding predatory, men not so much. Mrs. Tahoe should ask questions. Laura liked questions that began "How do you feel about... ?" Such questions can't be answered with "yes" or "no." They have to be answered with a discussion. Don't avoid questions asked of yourself. Answer as if you really want them to know, not like you're telling as little as you can get away with. Start with innocuous ones, such as "How do y'all feel about Gathering Place?" Ask a few innocent ones until they get used to the format of the question and are answering freely. Make your questions mirthful, not threating. Watch for frowns instead of smiles, body language, tone of voice. "How do y'all feel about marital dating? This one is useful. Some will interpret it as spouses dating separately; some as two couples going out to dinner together. Delve. If all this goes poorly, go back to innocent questions, or stop the conversation and go home. If the folks are anxious to answer, ask more pertinent questions such as, "How do you feel about life-long marital fidelity?" (Laura's answer on our first date was, "I can't imagine living my life only fucking one person.") If all went well, Laura would ask "the biggie." "How do y'all feel about swinging?" We got answers from "I would never do that; we're out of here!!" to "We've talked about it." (This is the most common in our experience.) to "We want to try it." to (our favorite) "We were both virgins 'til I got pregnant in high school. We've never been with anyone else. Y'all want to be our seconds?"
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Question as we plan to dip our toes in...
Alura replied to Seanandem's topic in First Swinging Experiences
That's a ponderable question, Seananem! Thanks for posing it. I think our first experience (also with an inexperienced couple, Linda and Larry), taught us the difference between "sex for fun" and "lovemaking." Laura said that the moment she guided Larry's forbidden cock into her, was one of the most sexually exciting things she'd done. They had shared a lot of saliva. Not only was she turned on beyond measure, probably because it was the first time she'd guided another man in since our marriage, but his wife was probably doing the same for me in the living room. They had sex twice before they panted into the living room where they found me between Linda's thighs, her toes pointed to the ceiling, making guttural sounds deep in her throat, sucking my tongue. When we came back to earth, Laura and Larry knelt by the couch and lovingly kissed their mates, my cock still inside Linda. Larry and Linda went to their bedroom and Laura and I to the couch, where we experienced a deeper kind of lovemaking. Loving each other after fucking another couple became our main reason for "swapping." Swapping, however, never came close to the satisfaction we found with each other. Laura said her orgasms were always better when we were together. I'd have to agree. -
In my opinion, a man who tries to coax his wife into swinging is headed for trouble. If you know she'll not be convinced, pick another sport. Horseback riding is relaxing. Especially for women. When a woman spends an hour or so clasping to an 800 pound clit-massager with her legs, her attitude often changes. I think a couple gets into swinging by steps. Decide if both understand the difference between "making love" and "fucking," and go from there.
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Playing with cheaters is not advisable in Oklahoma. We have a "constitutional carry" law on our books.
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Isn't creativity the goal? You succeeded, Couplers.
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Those who don't share completely with intimate partners don't, in my opinion, understand the "open" part of open relations .
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Is the saddle used on a horse?
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A foursome plus one makes a five-some. Or a threesome and a twosome. The combinations and permutations sound like fun!
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Would you swing with a co-worker?
Alura replied to JustAskJulie's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
Sleeping with a "co-worker" was the best thing I chose to do in my entire lifetime. Laura managed one of my company's motorcycle shops. I was a stock-holder and worked in the corporate offices. I had met her once when she came (I don't know why) to visit our main shop. I was taking photos to be used in an article I was writing for a trade magazine. Struck by her looks, I asked her to be a model. Her 'role" was to be "selling" a BMW to a customer. She portrayed herself well. The article was published. Months later, Our driver (who was called "Pirate," his bike club nickname) was sick and couldn't deliver a shipment of new model year bikes and accessories to Laura's store. I was the only one at the headquarters who had a license to operate trucks in Germany, so I substituted. Pirate was also to "do a show" at Laura's store, which meant staying in Nurnberg for the weekend. I took my bike (an R100RS) along thinking I'd have a chance to tour around Nurnberg. (I did, with Laura on the pillion.) During a lull in business, she asked me if I'd arranged for a hotel. I told her I planned to after the store closed. She looked at me suspiciously and asked "Did Hoffman (Corporate Manager) tell you to stay in my guest room?" I admitted he had. She was obviously perturbed. "I'm tired of his inviting employees to do that, but okay, you can stay at my place but you have to take to dinner at my favorite restaurant." Her husband, an Army Captain, was "in the field." Laura's favorite restaurant was the only Mexican restaurant in Germany (I believe). Having lived in New Mexico, I had grown fond of Mexican food. We spent four hours after Fajitas sipping beer and deeply involved in each other. Besides telling each other about our lives, I learned that she and her husband had decided to divorce. She had agreed to stay together until he was reassigned to Fort Ord which was to happen in a few weeks. He would arrive at his new base as a single officer. Our company was planning to open a new (and largest) store in Kaiserslautern. Laura was one of our best organized managers so I urged her to apply. She interviewed with Hoffman and got the job. Laura and I found an apartment half-way between our offices in a small town named Kirschheim-Bolanden. We each drove 32 kilometers to work. That was the beginning of thirty wonderful years together.- 86 replies
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I was reading posts on this day of Covid. I've been struck with a couple o' thoughts: Aslut is Tulsa spelled backwards. I resent that even though I like sluts. Is irrationality far ahead? I won't let it bother me beyond this sentence. The plural of "spouse" should be "spice." Marriage might be even tastier. In either case, the spice might want to taste other flavors. don't ya reckon? I agree with NWAtlSwing: you're not overthinking it.
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Notice to "Sluts": For every man who disdains you, there are five guys who want to eat your pussy.
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Laura and I found that two couples were able to create combinations to fulfill out fantasies. When we had threesomes, it was with are usual with our play-couple while a spouse was out of town. "When a spouse is away, the spice will play." -Mrs. Alura