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  1. Don't you just HATE when that happens? I'll tell you, the manager of Shop-Rite had a thing or two to say to me when that happened there the other day!
  2. Ultimately what makes a club great are it's members. They are there to have fun. But without respect and some degree of restraint, things can go downhill very easily. The aggressive path is not to take in a swingers club. I've never seen a really bad situation, mostly just ones where the husband/boyfriend is being pushy and the girlfriend/wife leaves. My main point was that straight women should not be looked down on, try to be changed, or forced into an uncomfortable situation. I just thought it might be nice to point out to straight women that they are NOT alone out there. And, to not be afraid to admit they don't like other girls and they deserve the same respect from other women as they do from men.
  3. Yep, intimidating. Not to ME, mind you, but to a lot of straight girls. Contrary to popular belief amongst males, not all girls are bi or bi-curious. Sorry guys. A lot of straight women I know are afraid of swing clubs because of the high interest in FF action. They worry because they think it'll be expected of them. I've never seen a girl get pressured into a girl on girl session at a club, but I do know girls that kinda said they were bi because of peer pressure. If a girl is totally straight, that's fine with me. I hope that no woman is afraid of admitting she is not into other women for fear of being looked down upon. Be honest and truthful, for here is a man who would have sex with you ANYWAY! jk. But seriously, you know what I mean. I hate to think that some women have to lie and feel intimidated because of the bi thing and should see that there are just as many women who are straight and happy that way. That's all I have to say about that.
  4. WHY????? I work for a utilities company and I go into TONS of homes. Now I'm a pretty decent looking guy if I must say so myself. BUT NO ONE EVER HITS ON ME!!!!! I'm sick of all these movies and shows making it look like guys like us get tons of action, well I DON'T!!!!! dammit.
  5. i "think" this thread has gone out of control! worry not, all is cool.
  6. nope, pretty much all i was, and am, interested in was soft-swinging. we both had a good time when we went. she's more self-conscious after we had a baby but because the club is so far away now it's also a hassle. i think the main issue is inconvenience.
  7. actually, my wife does go through here once in a while. i'm not worried. she's not the type to freak out anyway. the worst that'll happen is she'll tell me to get over it! i love fortune cookies! sometimes they end up being better than the meal!
  8. she doesn't want to go. the club we used to go to is far away now because me moved. i hope that if i keep buggin her and i find a club closer by, i'll still have a chance! oh yeah. njshoreguy is my personal account, my wife and i share this one. not to worry, she's forgotten about this...i think/hope!
  9. there really aren't any problems! i believe she just likes to have her own way and kinda tease me about it. there is NO animosity in our swing club debates. i think if i'm able to find a good one around where we live she'll go. anyone here know of any round these parts?
  10. let's see...i'm 36 and my husband is 37. we've known each other since high school when he used to go out with my best friend. he broke up with her and we hooked up a few years later. we've been soft swingers for 5 years now.
  11. Why would a club be raided? There's no prostitution going on, and any decent club will prohibit drugs, and as far as I know, most clubs don't even serve alcohol.
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