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20ishCouple

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About 20ishCouple

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  • Birthday 10/22/1981

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    Engaged ~he 24/she 23~
  • Location
    Indiana
  • Interests
    singing,dancing,chat,video games, movies, music, camping, fishing, playing pool,darts,poker

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    20ishCouple

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  1. Well.....I consider myself a straight female. However I've been in situations where Myself and Mr. 20ish were having sex in the same room with another couple, and the other woman ended up touching me. I wasn't offended the least bit, however, I couldn't bring myself to touch her back and really didn't find it to be too too pleasurable when she was touching me. But Not offended at all. We consider ourselves swingers, and are open to try lots of new things, but we mainly play MFM....since I would consider myself as straight. I do understand what was previously stated....lol....I don't know what you'd do in a 4some with a straight woman.
  2. We have a "toy chest" full of toys...lubes, oils, lotions, just a rough guess.....I'd say a couple hundred toys total.
  3. Ya know what my answer to that is? Well if he doesn't think you are fit for the Swinging lifestyle (or his idea of what the swinging lifestyle is all about anyway) then why would he even keep living it? Swinging has to work for the both of you. And while I am sure you are very content with swinging when the rules are followed, you are far from it when the rules are broken. He needs to take your feelings into consideration. That's just not fair. Swinging has to be a mutual agreement between the both of you. How fair is it for you to be uncomfortable while he gets his jollies? It's just not right. I hope your man realizes how good it is to even have a partner who was comfortable and trustworthy enough to even try the lifestyle. But by disregarding the rules that you guys set forth before the encounter even happend, just says that he doesn't value the relationship...thats just my opinion. I'm not meaning to come off rude, disrespectful, hurt you, or make you question your marriage...but thats just how I see it.
  4. I'm also very sorry to hear that this has happend to you. Your husband should have respected your opinion and your comfort level. Me, personally, I would never be comfortable with my guy and another girl in a different room. EVER! Even if he wanted to do that, I would have never backed down from the way I feel. That would have ended the whole evening for me. I hope that you and your husband come to terms with what happened during that encounter, and that you will move on and continue to explore the lifestyle. However, I like everyone else who has posted a response, think that it is time to sit down and talk before going on with any encounters. IMO I believe that your rules weren't too much to ask. Especially if you both agreed to them before hand. That is why we set rules, so no boundries are crossed, and nobody gets hurt. Sounds like to me that he needs to look up the meanings of RESPECT and Understanding. Always explore at the pace of the slowest person. This should be common knowledge. If he likes the whole "Full Swap" thing, why would he break the rules? He has to know that this will only make you alot more Uncomfortable. I completely feel for you and hope that things work out for the best. If you ever need to talk, feel free to message me. I'm always here to lend an ear. Ms. 20ish
  5. Never been in that situation as of yet....so I don't guess I can comment on this subject. Sorry, I'm no help Spoo
  6. Mr. 20ish....will give me oral if on the rare occasion I actually get a period, but I won't let him if i feel really yucky or the flow is heavy. And I will ONLY let him AFTER i've just had a shower or bath....But it is kinda a comfort thing with him, after being together for 8 years. I would not let another guy or girl do it for that matter....and he said he wouldn't do it to another girl ever.
  7. Mr. 20ish can orgasm when recieving a blow job, sometimes he will j/o a lil bit before I start giving him a blow job, it makes it a lot easier to orgasm, and a whole lot more intense.
  8. Mike & Jan.... I really like what you just said. I am an overweight girl in my 20's and in the vanilla world I have found that most guys don't think I'm attractive due to the fact that I am bigger. However, I think that I'm pretty darn good looking. I try to take care of myself, and make myself more appealing to the eye...but don't seem to turn many heads...Mr. 20ish, seems to think that I'm sooo Beautiful, and that any single guy would be crazy not to show interest in me...Yet I still worry about what is thought of me in the swinger lifestyle. All of our experience that we have had with swinging, has come from vanilla world partners....so We have never met a guy from the actual lifestyle, who has been interested. But what you just said made me feel a lil more comfortable about the situation...so I just want to say thank you....from deep within my heart. R (the she of the we)
  9. I think it is a completely safe fantasy.....Whatever works for you and turns you on...why bother fighting it.
  10. Curious.... From what we've read so far about you (in your interview)and seen from your posts, we really like your way of thinking. (IMO) so far, from what we know, you are a good guy who has his thoughts and ideas of the lifestyle in order. We'd love to be closer to you, it would be fun to meet up and have some drinks, just hang out, whatever. Why do you have to be so far away? R (the she of the we)
  11. I do understand and I am sure it is worth the wait for the right one, or ones...hehe.... Oh and I do understand what ya meant. *wink*
  12. I completely agree with you there. Patience....And we got lots of it. But still ready for another go with a single male.
  13. Well we definately aren't in it for the rackin up of the score. It's about so much more to us. Just wish that there were more people who we clicked with who has the same mindset. No we've never seen that movie....gonna have to check it out. R & J
  14. Wow I'm just reading what everyone is posting here...and well, honestly I am in aww at some of the things I have heard from the single men here. Mr. 20ish and myself want a single male, thats our favorite combo. But we want the emotional part of a long lasting 3 way sort of relationship, not just the sex. We love the bond that is shared between people who can be friends outside the bedroom, yet venture to the bedroom and show so much emotion and love, its very passionate, and that is a friendship that is treasured fore life. We had that once, and distance has came between us...so now we are searching to find that again. We want to meet someone who wants more than just the sex. It's good to see that the single guys posting in this forum don't look at swinging with a couple as just some One nite only sex and nothing more. Mr. 20ish is very patient, understanding, and far from the jealous type. We work well with Single men. It's just hard to find them around our area, who want a lil more than just sex, and who are somewhere close to our age. It's given us knew hope that somewhere out there, there are people who we'd work well with. Thank you all.
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