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  1. Sounds like the two of you are unfortunately among the 'dying breed', couples like you are hard to find and few and far between. It seems most couples between the age of 20-35 are 'players' or 'big game' hunters out to rack up a score and don't have any concern for the emotional wake they leave behind when speeding away. Young couples new to swinging just experimenting and have tight hot bodies know they 'got it going on' and don't need to reach inside or work at being 'kinder' 'gentler' souls. I was among the former with my first wife until I lost her, then my second wife(who is 15 yrs my senior) taught me a thing or two, don't get me wrong I'm generally the same A-hole I always was but atleast I care about people. Ever see the movie "Kiss the Sky"....beautiful movie too bad it don't really workout like that with a committed couple...there's always that 'line' that can't be crossed.
  2. stud on tongue, giggle a lot, start slowly playfully with it, eye contact is a must, be in a submissive position, when the veins start to bulge out then it's time, to tie the hair back and apply violent lip pressure and 'hungry velocity' of deep throat action, do not stop for conversation, extracting the stray hair from mouth, both hands around playing with hairy ass, or if lying on back aggressively attack the dangling member make him feel as if he just found you wondering in the desert and you are dying of thirst.
  3. Wow! Smart Woman...I agree almost 100%...thanks for the info on that (how long you're be (locked out) if said single male went AWOL...that would really piss me off too. Sounds like you got it figured out and all your bases covered. And I really love the fact you agree with the 'higher' principles of what the 'lifestyle' is all about. Play safe and play for Life.
  4. Sure I give up about 2am. When I was married me and my friend used to keep a wager on the single guys along those lines, as for giving up it's like a drug- very hard to. You can hang it up, come back in couple years if you want to, afterall it's recreational fun, your status can change and when it does the view changes from the 'cheap seats' to front row, but the politics never seem to change. Swinging is for couples, the power rests with the couples, as a Single males we are just the side show. If we can't laugh at ourselves and the many hypocrisies of Swinging then we arnt the consenting adults we claim to be. We're just one big disfunctional incestuous family. We singles have to remember we are the relatives that are invited at Christmas and arn't suppost to stay that long.
  5. Sounds like the perfect 'ticket' for me facelick so where have you been all my life....then there's the issue of the 'ticket' part....let's see isn't a 'ticket' someone who helps a man get into the club but doesn't swing herself? well guess you don't apply / don't see why you'd have a problem finding a single male or just a couple of friends to go with. Most of the better clubs only allow couples and single females in..so yeah you just have to find a male (bodyguard).
  6. Well, Maybe I've been doing things wrong but usually when a couple are interested in visiting with me, I approach them set and talk about ANYTHING except sex with the lady...I just smile at her...hope she smiles back...ask her questions about her clothes... talk a lot to the husband for a couple minutes then excuse myself to the men's room regardless of if I need to go or not...then act sociable back toward the bar stool hoping I will be invited to set with another couple or the husband of the first will have tracked me down by then...anything is better than the bar stool for the single men (you know they put ass-fault adhesive on them...at some clubs ).
  7. Well the group we played with was small close friends in a closed living room party, all the wives were bi so we just figured that equalled out...our main concern was each other's semen.
  8. boy, I sure wish you had stopped your hubby before he told me he was a "double standards" kind of husband.......on a "do you fuck filled pussy" thread.....I already knew I was expected to wear a condom, and figured the same thing you just wrote always applied in a MFM.....I mean you do have 3 wonderful attractions at the amusement park...and I know which one isn't open to me(usually never as a rule) and usually like to enjoy a light snack of snatch before going to work( but never with fresh gravy!)
  9. That was another part of the issue I brought up, when my wife and I were together the group issue of each husband T'ing off bareback...then everyone waiting till round 2 to glove is the exact point, we and our friends played thru the whole party the 'safe sex' way....no 'musical condoms' changing condoms all the time because you got X's sause on the outside, and can not insert in y, that's a real pain.
  10. It was my post to "do you like to fuck filled pussy" that sparked this poll, what I meant was it's a 'double standard' and "unfair' to expose the single male to your husbands fluids in a 'cream pie' sloppy seconds situation, which that part of the poll got neglected. What you are really saying in that case is, "we as a couple" practice safe sex for ourselves but not the other members of the community, if you want me to have 'sloppy seconds' but wear a condom and play it safe for the two of you, what happens to me if the condom I'm wearing rips ....guess I'm just SOL. I was under the impression that it was responsibility of all us males to do as much as possible to prevent our fluids from coming into contact with others. The poll didn't mention that part of the MFM. ...........wait a minute...the light bulb in my head just went off...What was I thinking...the answer is obvious..sorry for all the trouble...If I'm that worried about my safty...I should just decline the offer if I'm ever in that situation but then again this whole "issue' would never come up in "the heat of the moment". Only here on net.
  11. Actually, Right and wrong, the club that I was referring to by the post "guess we been in the same club" were the rules of a certain club in TN, there are much nicer clubs> the best so far where I was 'approved' is in your home state...Ft. Wayne. But then again, do all the couples know the exact briefing a single male gets when he makes it past the phone interview, and the screening...or could the 'posted rules' that the couples are shown differ from what is actually told the single male (in private)? If I could get by Ft. Wayne every Friday that would be great but you got to 'settle' for the club you can make it to...that's where you're at. So the main point is just follow the rules have a good time be happy you got in. My advise is not to think you're in a pick-up bar just a really great strip club...where you might just get lucky...and if not just enjoy your BYOB, be proud that you where clean& attractive enough, passed the interview, thankful that no one was standing there with a 'dick meter' and told you to drop your pants to be approved (that last part was a joke...I hope that's not a regular requirement at any club I might plan on checking out) and just enjoy the beautiful wives in their 'evening wear'.
  12. Dittos- we must have been in the same clubs (aren't that many that even let the single males in) I remember the screening/rules briefing ...you know the private little chat...where you supply the right answers. No means no, "maybe later" means no... only more polite. How many times can you approach a couple or lady after the first 'no'- zero. Where must you stay? No wondering around, no leaving this room unless escorted/invited, bar & darts....blah, blah. Enjoy your evening, thinks for the $40 donation and the $100 membership...sorry although you are a N.A.S.C.A. member...we require you purchase 'our' membership and sign this 'release from lib' form.
  13. I was under the impression that "full swap" can only be between two couples as opposed to excluding one of the players, another definition I heard refereed to "anything goes" and even another couple implied it refereed to the swapping of body fluids. So "partial swap" implies there are 'restrictions' as to who, where, how. As for 'soft swinging' I always thought it refers to just 'no swap' in the same room...you can watch us and we watch you. I also once heard there was an 'bad' definition for 'soft swinging' where a couple comes to a party just to be a tease, flirt with everyone but then leaves and goes home to party alone...after getting all excited.
  14. Hey, what is the name of that game, where one person is the director and all the couples are blindfolded and arn't allowed to speak to each other and the director calls out the positions by number from the karma sutra..and all the couples have to fuck by the numbers..and both know what the positions are? It's so fun...to play and watch!
  15. Well, once again being "the single guy" I'm really not allowed a choice...but if I were..it'd be inside.....after all I'm swinging not making a porn movie.
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