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  1. Are you referring to the morning-after pill? Assuming you've never had to use that, what is the effectiveness of that pill?
  2. So in the case where your wife and the hubby were 'still in the game' what did your do for protection? was she already on the pill? Yes, the unwanted pregnancy with a playmate would be our biggest nightmare too, but the option of tying tubes is probably not something we would consider (too evasive). It would appear that our options at this point would be for me to remain on the pill or look into the use of a diaphragm. Not too hip on the diaphragm thing, but may not have any other choice. Thanks for your input.
  3. No, the concern really is for me not getting pregnant. We always use condoms with guys that I play with. Now with me getting off the pill I am really concerned about it. I am looking for perspectives from others on what they have alternatively used. We're definitely not looking to get out of the Lifestyle, just looking for ideas on how to stay safe.
  4. Yeah the Tubes Tied thing is not a route we want to go, (heck, I had the kids, so its his turn for the procedure! lol). That is what our main concern is, me playing with guys with just condoms and no protection for me. The choice for me to get off the pill is mainly for health reasons. ie., the long term effects of birth control pills as you get older. My husbands impending vasectomy allows me the opportunity to get off of them for good, but again we don't want to disrupt our participation in the Lifestyle. Never really thought about an IUD. May look into a diaphram, but seems like a lot of work? Anyway thanks for your response.
  5. Okay here's our situation. We've been in the lifestyle now for over 3 years and completely enjoy every aspect of it. However we are at a point in our lives/marriage that we are done having kids. My husband is planning on getting a vasectomy which eventually will lead me to abandon birth control pills that I have been religiously taking since I was 18. While in the lifestyle we have always had the confidence that since I was on the pill and our play-partners always used condoms that we were significantly (yet not completely, lol) protected from any chance of pregnancy. We are now concerned about how this change for us will/would affect our ability to continue to swing. We're looking for others out there who have gone through this and would like to know what you did to stay in the lifestyle? i.e. condoms and another form of contraceptives? If so, what? Or completely stopped playing? Thanks!
  6. We've met (through IM Chat's and e-mails) two individuals, one male and one female, who my wife and I have interest in playing with in MFM and FMF situations. Problem is that both of these individuals have stated upfront to us that they are both married, in committed relationships and their spouse's do not know about their extra-curricular activities. Our question is, how should we proceed with both of these situations. We know that it probably is not the best thing to pursue, but in both situations we have a lot in common and have hit it off well! Has anyone else had an experience like this and pursued it? Good or bad experiences? THanks everyone for your comments.
  7. Mrs Spoo......please elaborate on this......wondering minds would like to know...
  8. MJ- Yeah that is what I thought would happen to my wife being fucked for so long, but our last guy was @ 1.5" longer than me and my wife said it was hitting her spot just right the whole time that it was not painful nor was it boring. She enjoyed the whole hour of pleasure. I guess maybe it is just different strokes for different strokes! I may need to work on increasing my stamina to keep up with these guys!
  9. Thanks for the response Spoo, yes, I can honestly say that the three gentleman proceeded to fuck my wife in several different positions for at least an hour. The only time they stopped was to switch postions or to add a little bit more lube. I can think of only one time one of the guys switched to oral for maybe 5-10 minutes, but other than that I am talking straight fucking with no interruptions!
  10. Question for you guys and out there (ladies feel free to chime in too!). My wife and I recently experienced our 6th MFM experience. All have been extremely hot and satisfying not only for us, but for the single too. I have noticed that 3 of the 4 single males that we have played with had some incredible stamina (or I guess what I consider incredible), meaning they were able to fuck for at least one hour without their first orgasm . Is this normal for most guys? I can honestly say that the longest I have been able to hold out with my beautiful wife has been between 20-25 minutes . Is there a measurement out there that defines what is normal, abnormal, and what is premature? Don't get me wrong, I loved the fact that these guys could go for so long with my wife. They made her cum three or four times before they each had their first orgasm. The first couple of times I felt kind of jealous in the fact that these guys could satisfy my wife so many times, but I am completely over that (hell, it has made our lovemaking a lot more exciting and to watch her in the throes of passion gets me going anyway). I just want to know how is it possible for these guys to last this long?? Thanks!
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