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  1. Well, I think the general thought is do get wrapped around the axle about differentiating between hot, attractive, cute ect... It is what it is. Thanks Guys. Have a Happy New New!!
  2. My wife and I were sitting in the hot tub discussing some of our life style experiences. The one thing we chuckle about are the responses people provide when describing the general physical appearance of others and what the responses mean. We have heard responses as hot, attractive, cute and of course silence. Hot, attractive and no response seem self-explanatory. It’s the cute description that is bothersome to us. It seems being labeled cute is the kiss of death akin to the no response at all with politeness added. Is being labeled cute the kiss of death in meeting and moving beyond being friends? How does cute fall into the range of hot to silence?
  3. I think the most common thread in the posts is that blackmail is a risk but not very probable. Hell, life is full of risk. Granted, I don’t like the blackmail thing but some of the risks and unknowns of swinging are exciting (who are we going to meet at the club tonight?). On a cautionary note, I think swinging outside our area code is probably good advice for us. Those that we have met in the lifestyle have been quality fun people (your typical middle class neighbors with two or more kids). It was no surprise to us that the posts listed here were worthy thoughts, THANKS. By the way, do you guys really think some paranoid enough to start a thread like this would list their real home city even if it is Chicago? Anyway, we visit Chicago area clubs for those near by. Thanks Again, S and J
  4. My wife and I have been involved in the Lifestyle for a year now and have had some great times; however, since the start of our new lifestyle, I have been concerned that someone with knowledge of our secrete life may use it against us for something in return to keep quiet. If we were discovered, my wife and I have plenty to lose professionally and socially. Has anyone had any experience with the treat of someone telling others of your swinging lifestyle? I would be interested how teachers, dentists, lawyers, police officers and others in the public realm view this issue. Thanks, S & J
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