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    Vero Beach Florida
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    Fishing
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    Hearing aid specialist

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  1. It totally amazes me that such focus can be upon the hair length of the hair that a man has. The depth of the person seems such more important to me. What if there were a ..........say.....gastrointestinal .....what if he or she farted a lot.....would that be a prob? When push comes to shove it don't just plain matter about hair. The important things to me include mannerisms, personality, chemistry, and just shit you have in common. I get more amaze every day though that people actually consider pubic hair length to be an issue.
  2. neat, I always said mr and mrs thump are the greatest. John
  3. Whoa....everything else? What is the bottom line again? I'm horribly confused. A little contention? What do you mean? I read your post several times and just can't get a grip on it. John
  4. Ya know. If I really wanted to have sex with someone it wouldn't matter. I'd take my chances. I'd put on a latex Superman suit. But just don't judge me for it. John
  5. The biggest problem I see is people living a life without fun. If I had a Harley FUCK the helmet. When they put the seat belt signs on the airplane i say WHY? When the road is straight and the weather is clear and no one is on the road WHY GO 65? GO 120! You may get a ticket but do it anyhow. Make sure you are driving a good Escort with at least two matching tires though! Never take unnecessary chances! People actually think that eating good food is dangerous. I don't just eat a good steak, I eat the fat. I put butter on peanut butter and make a sandwich. I plan on dying someday. I deal with people that are in their 90's all the time. I don't plan on getting there. I know one thing. There is no STD that will or could affect me. IF I get one then it is OK man. It beats say, cancer of the eyeball. Shit happens. OK I'M DONE John
  6. Swinging 25 years without anyone ever getting a STD that I know means something to me. It means that the risk factor is very fucking low. To hear people actually attack others for their personal decisions means much more though. It means that unless we have thought police we are incapable of using judgment. That smacks of the very thought pattern that would demise the lifestyle in general. If you need to use your rubbers then read the directions and put them on properly. If you aren't going to get pregnant or impregnate anyone then it is just a matter of STD's. Having witnessed thousands of swinging partners engage in most types of behavior for so many years without catching a cold leads me to believe that I really resent anyone telling me what to do. Yeah I may use them, but please don't tell me to. You are really out of line suggesting how another person or couple manages their lifestyle. I find it appalling that anyone would have the balls to suggest that if consenting adults choose to engage in sex without rubbers they are bad people. It's kinda like the asshole that screws around on his wife, is a pastor, and talks about monogamy. Who the fuck are you telling me what to do anyhow....and a swinger to boot. What possesses some people? If you wanna use rubbers use them. If you don't then don't. But for crying out loud this is not a good platform for practicing safe sex talk. Swingers are usually married and over 15. How very insulting and laughable at the same time. John
  7. I just wonder how many got into it for that reason. Poll time? I see so many couples looking for bi-females. I personally had fantasies of threeways with bi-females, but the MMF turned me on much more. Not that I wanted to get bi with the guy. That was something I did indulge in many times just cuz my partner liked to watch it though. Interesting and I really wonder how many guys actually get into if for that exact reason. I have tried to figure out why it turns me on so much and have come to this conclusion. TO watch the love of my life get fucked by another guy is so very erotic because it is like the greatest pleasure of tabooland I could give her. To give her a sex toy and wonder what she is fantasizing about just didn't do it for me. John
  8. NightGoddess is probably one of the nation's most informed people on this subject and she sure turned on a light for me. Whether you are cut or uncut doesn't matter. It is the newborns that concern me. I'm happy being cut, but if I had a choice now, NO WAY. Now that is a 180 for me cuz I had both of my boys cut. I just hope the word gets round that its for the new generation to change this.
  9. I go along with "size doesn't matter" to a point. Some people actually have a size preference. To go over a couple of points I notice that often one will say size doesn't matter then follow it up with a remark that large penises are painful. Well if a guy with a small dick lbs away like a jerk and isn't gentle when thats what is wanted he's gonna hurt someone also. Someone else says dick size is couterbalanced by tongue size, again size counts to a point. If a guy is big and he is experienced he knows how to use it without hurting a female. First of all you really don't need to use the whole thing unless she wants it. Having a big dick doesn't mean you are a good lover,but it sure doesn't automatically put you in the "fuck like a horny ape" category either. Proper sexual technique includes more than one organ. The brain, the heart, the penis, and the skin (yes skin is an organ, and it always seems to be better if you are well endowed to insure there is proper lubrication before using it). I personally have found age to be of little importance. I don't get any complaints, and have been told that I am actually above average in the screwing dept. by almost every women I have had the opportunity to experience it with. To me the secret of lovemaking is knowing what the female really really wants. Some like very gentle non-penetrative oral as an example. If you start fucking her with your tongue she may feel like its horrible. You can ask her if she prefers clitoral stimulation first, or if she likes you to just dive in. Many women love a combination of finger and tongue play simultaneously, but usually after plenty of foreplay. Most women do not like to be on top with me cuz it is hard for me to control the depth of penetration. So, simple, ask them. Of course if I'm feeling good I can contol the depth of penetration by tightly grasping her hips before I "hit bottom", and hur her. I have undoubtedly gotten laid many times just due to the size of my dick, but not more times than the nature of my personality. I have seen the same female go absolutely nuts over a very small cock and on the same night go ape over a donkey cock. It is not a matter of which is better overall. Diversion is neat. The same gal that may prefer smaller dicks may get off on a great big one now and then. OFten the husband is turned on by watching his lady take in a big dick, orally or otherwise also so it can be a pleasure shared. I see no reason to feel inadequate because I have a large penis and I see no reason for anyone to feel inadequate for having a small one either. Just my 9 cents. John
  10. When you have been cheated on it is so hard. I just don't understand why people do that to each other. Mrs. O, is fortunate to have a man that she is stable with. It will take a long time for me to find that again I know that. I have broken a lot of bones. I have been stolen from. I have had horrible sickness. I suffered the death of my wife. But not to compare the last one, there is no pain like being cheated on.
  11. WOW, Mr and Mrs Thump are bout the nicest people I know. What I read was totally unexpected although we are posting our t-shirt picture when I can get it to a jpeg. Hey its all fun and for the THumps to unexpectedly express that single gentlemen do have a place in the lifestyle can only be expressed as a sincere thanks that I was an example. THere are plenty of single guys and gals that can and will add to relationships as I hope I have. THanks so much for the nicest compliment I think I could have gotten as a single swinger and a person. One more thing. Mrs Thump is the most energetic, flexible, tight, foxy chick that I have ever had the experience to experience. MR. THump is the type of guy that I was when I was with a partner. He knows just when to enjoy and just when to really turn up the VOLUME of the action! It takes three. John
  12. In the lifestyle or in most aspects of any part of life, attractiveness is the most important thing isn't it. You can look like Larry Flynt and get sex, but the lifestyle is about attractiveness.
  13. I stand corrected. Monogamy is having one partner for life. Nothing to do with sex. I always figured it had to do with sex.
  14. Monogamous is monogamous. The definition is sexual. A couple that is honest with each other need not fear sexual deception. You can have sex with others and that's fine, but by definition its not monogamy. I like your thinking, but words and there definition need to be taken seriously. Monogamy is having sex with MONO...ONE. Just a thought. The words are important. Swinging by definition is not monogamous. IT can be spiritually, physically and emotionally positive but it just ain't monogamy.
  15. Is it cheating then to flirt at work? You both know it won't go anywhere and who can definitely define flirting? Just trying to stir the pot.
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