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SamIAm

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About SamIAm

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  • Relationship Status
    Male
  • Location
    Colorado
  • Swinging Experience
    12 years
  1. Going on 16 years in July. Just like a lot of other people. We have had our ups and downs, and not all in bed.
  2. Hi all, I know it has been a long time. But I wanted you to all know that everything is much better now. Some stuff has changes which has help both us grow stronger. Once again, I just wanted to thank everybody for you words and help. TTYAL, Sam xoxoxo
  3. Thank you all for your thoughts and replies. As far as anything else new, not much has changed. To bad.. We have just been to busy to get on line. I'm just at the point were I don't give a crap. If something happens, it happens... I'm sure I'll be back on for some more help when and if I need it. Once again, Thanks all... TTYL
  4. To Everybody, Thank you for all of your input. I did write her a letter on how I have been feeling after I posted this. She had not read it yet. We were very busy this weekend, but I did calmly talk to her also about what was going on as well. I don’t have much time to respond to all of you and your questions, I’m sorry but I will try to address them soon. But I do want to quickly address some of the stuff I’ve done since the 1st posting. As far as the deleted chat, she said she really didn’t know you could delete chats from the massage archive. She is kind of new at using computers, so I guess I’ll have to take her word on this. Plus, I don’t want to push it. The guy! I did talk to him last Friday. A told him I was upset and why. He told me pretty much the same thing my wife told me they talked about. This was nothing big to me. He cammed, showing her for a few minutes and then she got off. I did talk to him about his wife. Once again saying that she is not into this lifestyle right now, that she is taken a break and that she told him it is okay to play solo. Well, I did tell him that we would like to talk to her someday and he said, he was fine with that. We will see!!! LOL… I will post the chat I had with him if you guys want me too. I will keep you informed on anything else that comes up and sure am glad I have this web site and you people to turn to for input. Once again, Thanks!!! Have a great day. Sorry for the drama. soapbox SamIAm
  5. Hi all, I am a bite down today and I’m not sure were to start. I guess a brief summery of us would be good. We started swinging back in late April. That is when we had our first threesome (MFM). Not to say if a MFM is a truly swinging! We live in a small town in Colorado. So to find someone to help us with our first threesome we had to travel a couple of hours. Well, since then, we have met someone from our town and that person was our 2nd threesome (MFM). This guy is married and says that his wife knows and they are okay with playing with out one another. Okay! We have only met up with him once so far back in late September. Well, my wife and I chat with him often, on the net. Her more then me! Which really doesn’t bother me? I know I can come home and read what they talked about on the message archive. This brings me up to what is on my mind. head bang They chatted two days ago. I got home from work and wanted to read what they chatted about, but when I went to go to bring it up, it seem to be a problem that I was doing that with my wife. She felt that I always don’t need to run up to the computer and bring up the archive and start reading it. I don’t do this everyday mind you. Any how, I didn’t read it that night. I emailed it to my work so I could read it the next day, witch was yesterday. Here is some of the chat from two days ago: Wife (1:25:57 PM): Hey sexy, are you still working these days? The Guy (1:26:12 PM): LOL The Guy (1:26:17 PM): yeah I am how about you sexy? Wife (1:26:27 PM): no Wife (1:26:40 PM): are you home 4 lunch? The Guy (1:26:48 PM): yeah The Guy (1:26:53 PM): two hour lunch LOL Wife (1:27:02 PM): nice. Wife (1:27:28 PM): so a little lunch and a little fun..can't beat that! The Guy (1:28:04 PM): nope The Guy (1:28:11 PM): would love to have some fun in real life Wife (1:28:31 PM): as do I! Wife (1:28:40 PM): w/u. The Guy (1:29:11 PM): yes definately with you The Guy (1:29:21 PM): maybe I could come over and Sam could watch us on cam Wife (1:29:43 PM): great idea..but Sam would not want that. The Guy (1:30:09 PM): yeah I know The Guy (1:30:12 PM): lol Wife (1:30:15 PM): well I have to go...daughter home sick from school.... Wife (1:30:19 PM): have fun. The Guy (1:30:33 PM): bumer Wife (1:30:33 PM): and hope to cam with you soon! The Guy (1:30:35 PM): ttyl then The Guy (1:31:01 PM): yeah totally!! Wife (1:32:59 PM): sounds great to me...just Im me when you want to...except right now...lol Wife (1:33:02 PM): bye. Nothing much there, but I do like the fact that She told him that I would not want that. Okay, here so some more of there chat from later on two day ago. Wife (9:33:53 PM): hello The Guy (9:34:00 PM): hi there Wife (9:34:08 PM): whatcha doing? The Guy (9:34:18 PM): just checking email and stuff The Guy (9:34:21 PM): you? Wife (9:34:22 PM): cool. The Guy (9:34:26 PM): is this Samantha or Sam? Wife (9:34:42 PM): digging my x mas shit out of the crawl space..lol Wife (9:34:52 PM): Samantha The Guy (9:34:59 PM): cool The Guy (9:35:05 PM): hey there sexy Wife (9:36:42 PM): so your checking e mail..anything else FUN? The Guy (9:37:01 PM): nope wish i was doing something fun with you tho Wife (9:39:20 PM): so have you been getting sex now? The Guy (9:39:38 PM): nope she still hasnt gotten her pills The Guy (9:41:20 PM): need some vigorous activity to keep us warm Wife (9:42:11 PM): sound real good to me! The Guy (9:42:32 PM): well you just tell me when and where? The Guy (9:42:40 PM): like tomorrow would be perfect LOL Wife (9:42:48 PM): now would be great! The Guy (9:43:02 PM): yes...yes it would LOL Wife (9:43:59 PM): r u on cam? The Guy (9:44:13 PM): nope The Guy (9:44:15 PM): why do you ask? Wife (9:44:37 PM): just curious...and imagining! The Guy (9:44:46 PM): mmm The Guy (9:44:51 PM): you up for playing in the mornging? Wife (9:45:17 PM): sounds like fun..but Sam won't be here. The Guy (9:45:27 PM): on cam of course The Guy (9:45:35 PM): LOL Wife (9:46:03 PM): maybe I can watch you ....if you don't mind. The Guy (9:46:14 PM): I dont mind The Guy (9:46:20 PM): but i cant watch you?? The Guy (9:49:18 PM): ?? Wife (9:50:04 PM): not tomorrow..sorry. The Guy (9:50:10 PM): why not?? Wife (9:50:46 PM): Sam want's me to cam when he is around. The Guy (9:50:53 PM): oh gotcha The Guy (9:50:54 PM): bummer The Guy (9:51:01 PM): he didn’t like it last time we did it? Wife (9:51:36 PM): yes he enjoys it..but when he is around. The Guy (9:51:51 PM): well I meant the last time me and you did it with out him The Guy (9:51:59 PM): that is cool I dont want to cause any problems Wife (9:54:04 PM): well I'm not sure. Wife (9:54:17 PM): your not causing problems to me. The Guy (9:55:32 PM): ok good Wife (9:55:41 PM): so are you still working on that basement? The Guy (9:55:46 PM): yep The Guy (9:55:59 PM): this week I am just kinda going in on my schedule Wife (9:56:06 PM): nice! The Guy (9:56:13 PM): yep Wife (9:56:44 PM): so are you going to be alone anytime soon? The Guy (9:56:54 PM): not sure The Guy (9:57:10 PM): she mentioned going down to Denver to visit family but I dont know when? Wife (9:57:21 PM): cool... Wife (9:57:47 PM): keep us posted if you want to get together! The Guy (9:58:06 PM): I definately want to fuck you again if that is what you mean Wife (9:58:23 PM): well I wasn't asking that! Wife (9:58:30 PM): but it's good to know. The Guy (9:58:34 PM): sorry The Guy (9:58:37 PM): lol Wife (9:59:30 PM): so I can have our daughter to stay over at my brothers house for a night if you wanted to get together on a weekend. The Guy (10:00:04 PM): very cool!!! Wife (10:00:27 PM): so he will watch her. The Guy (10:00:58 PM): cool! Wife (10:01:54 PM): well I guess that i will let you go. The Guy (10:02:14 PM): ok luv Wife (10:02:23 PM): have a good night. The Guy (10:02:30 PM): you too sexy The Guy (10:02:32 PM): ttyl! There is some stuff I question on this chat, that I didn't know of as well. Sorry All, I’m having a hard time typing this up. Not that good at getting what I want to say, out. I’ve been up front with my wife about how I don’t want her to play one on one with anybody , that we should be in this together. And she has respected that. I feel that she is being very up front with me. And it seem to me she is let this guy know that I want to be a part of what is going on. But yesterday, they chatted… and he had his cam on for her. Once again, I don’t really care if he shows her; I just want to be around if she shows him. Insecure I’m sure I am, but want to be in this together. Well, yesterday when I got home, I went to bring up there chat. It had been deleted . All the others chats were there from that day, but that one. I asked her about it, and she said, she didn’t know what happened to it. Well, my mind started rolling and I got mad . We got into a small argument about this. I asked her a few times what did they talked about and some how it never really got answered. Maybe we were just too busy bickering. I wish I wasn’t up-set . After yesterday missing chat, I am getting a feeling that she was trying to hide what they talked about. I hate this feel. Wish I could change it. What are your thoughts on this? Am I making this something that it is not? Could the chat have disappeared because of some kind of computer problem? Maybe in my state of mind, I should just back off. I’m just so confused. Surrender Thanks all for listing.
  6. Does anybody know what happened to the summary of the show on the 20/20. The link doesn't work now. Thanks, xoxox Never mind, I got it to work now... Thanks all...
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