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Perseus

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About Perseus

  • Rank
    Long Timer
  • Birthday 01/06/1967

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    S. Male seeking Couples and S. Females for good times and possible LTR
  • Location
    Winter Park, Fl
  • Interests
    Photography, Computers, Sexy couples, and sexy single ladies looking for a LTR :)
  • Occupation
    Computer Tech
  • Swinging Experience
    12 years

Swinger Info

  • SLS Name
    Perseus

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  1. I have to say, in the last 3 to 4 years, the attitude about bimen on the board has changed a lot. I remember before there were ton of people that were like "No way!" I have seen other changes in the world too.. It used to be that tgirls didn't p[lay with each other either and now that is all they are looking for... I guess, as Mr. Dillon said, "The times they are changing..."
  2. You sound like me and the male half of the couple I used see. She got eaten quite a bit after each of us getting through... Not that she complained.
  3. Or even ask if hat couple has such a great relationship, why are the looking for others? Must be to fix their bad relationship... right? /sarcasm off Of course I don't believe that. I say it to point out that everyone has their reasons for where they are in life.
  4. This topic touches home for me. I am a single male swinger and the subject is very touchy. When I place an ad, I am always conscious of how to put the fact that I am bi, but it is not a requirement from to have fun. I think I have found a good balance, but you never know. Many of the men is the swinging community have such a 'gut' reaction to the subject, you have to be careful. I know I would never bring it up at a party, for instance. And I know that I would never cross a boundary without clear indications that is it is ok. I am sure not every guy who reads my ad gets that though. Surrender Anyway, I have found it can be very sexy in the right situation. It's just not something for every swinging situation.
  5. You also have to admit that if you don't desciminate,you are in the minority... How many couples hear "bi" or "BDSM" or whatever, the discriminate.... If bi is part of what I amm, but not my focus of my sexual pleasure, should I advertise it? Perseus
  6. You have to admit. If a woman says they are bi, it is way different world then if a man says they are bi in the swinger community. Perseus
  7. Well, I guess this goes back to the "are you lucky' thread, but I got lucky. I meet the couple that I see in a off premise bar that I never had much luck in (any more luck then I have in regular clus meeting women). I was able to introduce myself as I had seen them on Yahoo and recognised them from thier profile. I walked up and said hi and explained how I knew them. Fortunately, I was lucky enough that the like me and we have been together ever since. I am working to meet more people, and I think that being bi may come in handy as I am seeing more and more couples that are accepting it and advertising it. Maybe puritan America is starting to turn the corner. Now, single women, that's tougher. Perseus P.S I have been seeing them for 2 years and I love them to death (the l word is not bad in this context right?) Now, maybe I can talk them into a poly relationship.
  8. I don't know why, but I vote single guy... In fact, if you are in Florida.... j/k Seriously though, there are a lot of nice single guys out there, take the time and find one. You never know, you might meet a friend for a long time to come. Perseus
  9. You think it is bad to put bi in your ad as a woman, try it as a man. It is almost like you are a pariah. I don't know ehy, but for some reason people think that if you say you are bi, you are goona be all over someone that does not go there. I even put in my ads that I am bi, but don't expect it, but I don't think it helps. Oh well, I guess that is the nature of the beast. Perseus
  10. Jeeze, why do I feel like Bob here.... Girls don't want to score? Guys are jerks because they do? If guys (or girls) didn't wanna score, you would have those wonderful weddings and babies. Am I really that wrong? Or am I just another jerk guy. Perseus P.S. Yes, I know what you are really saying, but it is so frustrating to read the 'party line' over and over when everyone knows the score. Hell there would be no swinging if girls didn't get into sex on some level... Ahhhh.... I feel beter now...
  11. *note - just a tad toasty and being silly* Just curious, what would you be doing with the first girl if the second was giving you a BJ? As to your wife’s fantasy, if you ever come see the mouse... (Mostly kidding or not ) Perseus
  12. Ummm Politics and religion? Always good topics to avoid. Oh, and no Geritol jokes.... hehe J/k Really though, I am sure you probably don't have to worry though. Just don't get into a three-way conversation about something that wouldn't be in his generation (uhhh like grunge music) and make him feel left him out because he doesn't have a frame of reference to join in.
  13. You make me blush milady! As to the poor me stuff, I knew it was and is gonna be a hard road fitting in to the lifestyle. I don't whine, but I always to to learn.
  14. Well, I have been in on one flame war this week; I don’t intend to get into another. I can see that a certain couple of people have totally poisoned the waters for the single guys again. We had nice discussions about being single in the lifestyle in this forum until this last week, and now it is turning downright mean. I for one am gonna try stay above it till some one attacks me. When that happens, I may have to find a game board to post to instead for a while. That said, John, You have a bad day? Need a chill pill? If you have a personal problem with Mrs. O, you need to take it private. Bob, I know what you are saying and your views on women and the general treatment of all males through out history is well documented. Maybe we could tone it down and be a little more constructive. I don’t think you are gonna win the ‘gender revolution’ in a single swingers forum. As to the original question, I think a lot of people here are looking for a fight and somehow they are looking for the events of the last week to bolster their positions. Why don’t couples look for single males as much as couples and females? The answers are quite clear and have been stated many times. I want to write all of what I really think on the subject, but I am gonna take my time and present it instead of do it off the cuff. Till then, Cheers! And keep the flames to a minimum.
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