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Eroica

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About Eroica

  • Rank
    Contributor

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    Married couple
  • Location
    San Diego
  • Interests
    See our web site
  • Occupation
    management

Swinger Info

  • SLS Name
    sdfriends
  1. It happens in single life every day. I would not be surprised that a small percentage in the lifestyle population would find it exciting to try. However, we vote in the majority on this one.
  2. My wife is trying to get pregnant. So we abstain from being with others during her fertile period. For us, penetrative sex with others is rare. However, we wouldn't think of sex with others without a condom not only for contraception but for disease protection. If you are intimate with a fairly active swinging couple who don't use condoms, just do the math of the possible partners that they could have been involved with. We know couples that have sex with other couples two or three times per weekend. The laws of probability catch up with these couples having unprotected sex even if the chance of catching a disease is only 1%! After a year, they would have been exposed to thousands of other couples who would have had sex with their partners. Promiscuous and unsafe couples are a danger to everyone and they are a long term threat to the lifestyle in general.
  3. Only a hobby or an occasional adventure. We have seen too many lifestyle/ every weekend couples having marital problems. Small sample size but kind of scary for us. Everthing in moderation!
  4. We are comfortable to go with the flow depending on the couple and the chemistry. Usually, with relationships of this kind to use a metaphor, " water will seeks it own level".
  5. In our case it depends on the other couple. With one of our close couple friends it was me (the husband) and the other couple's wife who initially communicated. One night in a club, in a different situation, it was my wife who initiated contact with another woman and me and the other husband who "went with the flow". So, based on our experience, either of us can be the aggressive one depending on the people and situation. However, in group parties where most the women are bi, it is pretty much the women dictating the flow.
  6. We do not have children so we can give very vague answers. However, we had a problem once when we went to a lifestyle resort in a foreign country. Everyone wanted a phone number where they could reach us in an emergency. Luckily, for us, the resort owners were cool about incoming phone calls.......and no one called us!
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