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  1. Ok people, let's get real here. Why would the "beautiful" people be interested in you?? You say you are fat,middle aged and balding...So why would someone who is the opposite of that be attracted to you? Is there an unwritten law in swinging that says you have to be into everyone..regardless of what they look like??? Guess I didn't get that memo!!...LOL!! I can see how that's who you would want... but guess what... that isn't the way things go...personality is important but physical attraction is more important.(in swingland anyway) Sorry...that's just the way it is...Try people who are physically more like you. Although unfortunately they probably have the same mindset as you. Or maybe try working on yourself...diet,exercise....your never too old to start..... Not trying to be a weiner here...just stating the obvious...
  2. Be yourself..just because you are a BBW does not mean you will never find playmates in the lifestyle.In fact you'll find plenty!!! Everybody has different tastes. I must say though..be truthful..if you send pics make sure they are accurate...nothing will get you rejected faster than sending pics that are 10yrs old when you weight 75lbs less.....people are gonna see you in person...and weight is hard to hide when you are naked!!! Mr B
  3. Huh?? you must not know many lesbians....or you watch too much tv....most of the gay women i know are VERY butch..flannel shirts,chain wallets,the whole nine yards...the truth is not far from the stereotype...lol!!.... I also know many gay men that you would never know were gay....and some that shoot sparks out their ass when they walk..... Most Bi men and women do not fit the stereotype because they are BI not Gay...
  4. We are nudists..our kids are nudists..always have been ..always will be...so them seeing us nude is no big deal...seeing us having sex however is a different story!!!
  5. We LOVE taking pics!!!...So...our profiles always have lots of high quality pics..of the both of us..but most of her...Cuz I'm just too damn ugly..camera freezes up every time I get my pic taken!!! Seriously though there are a good number of pics of me too...but we know one couple that has about 80 pics on swappernet and say in the profile how they hate couples who only post pics of the female....well out of 80 pics they have2 of him.... one of his face and one of his dick..and the face pic is like 10 yrs old...we know this cuz we know them personally!!!! And the unsexy undies, messy backgrounds, fuzzy webcam pics, or just plain horrible shots!!!! OMG!!!!..I can't believe what people will post!!!!!
  6. Thats the funniest thing i have ever heard!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! We've had some doosies in our time but never had a naked woman left on our porch!!!!!! I can't top that......
  7. Married 15...together 20.....first for me 2nd for her....
  8. LM..Not to offend... but if you are that high profile..why swing??You have to know that the chance of being "outed" is high if you are well known? Yes that is something that happens alot at clubs...one reason why we generally dont hook up with people at clubs..sorry but i still want to know a little about you before we get naked.... Yes..and the fact that there are too many weirdos out there and this is not a private board..so any one can read the posts...it would be foolish to use your real name here.... We do too but still block our faces...again..too many pscycos out there....we were once approached at a supermarket.by a dude that we said no thank to on a site..because he recognized us from our pics... Yea...probably..but we have met many local couples at far away clubs and many far away couples at local clubs..so go figure.... Mr B facelick
  9. I think most people in the lifestyle encounter the same problems..after all swinging in general can stir up alot of trouble in a relationship..i mean think about it...l you are dealing with ego's,emotions,jealousy,and a whole range of things that can go wrong...what sets this board & the people on it apart is the ability and willingness to communicate and talk through the problems instead of just bottling it up or running away from it (thats also why we can get along to a certain degree even though there are many many different types of people here)
  10. You Lie about your names?!?!?...and i suppose you expect people to have sex with you and be honest about themselves??...hmm.."yea i dont have to tell em about my herpes..after all they lie about their name"....that is a great way to think.....another example of why we are so disgusted with swingers and swinging.......
  11. Spoomonkey's post about why people take breaks got me wondering.... How long have you been in the lifestyle?? It seems to me most of the people on here have only been doing it actively for a year or two.... So How long have you been Swinging???
  12. Well it's like this...we list both of us as bi. We have no desire to be involved with homophobic closed minded people..if you are not bi then we don't need bi activities..but if you are great..After many years swinging we don't find ourselves needing to lie about who we are, if you don't like bi males then we don't like you and are not that desperate to get laid that we'll do people who are not on the same page as us...as for anybody who has a problem with me being bi...2 bad 4 U!!!! As i have said before..Soooooooo many times couples write us with so called Str8 males and profiles that express how much they don't want bi males, but in their letters they tell us how the male is actually bi-curious or totally bi...makes no sense to me..And most if not all the single males say they will be bi within a threesome setting... We also very rarely write to people first and would never ever write to a profile that said "no bi males" no matter how sexy they are..the attitude makes them ugly to us...
  13. .(Quote) I was confused, I admit. Maybe there is something else other than "he likes guys" that we wrote in our profile that might be violating some invisible rule we haven't learned yet?(Quote) No you are doing the right thing....one thing that is a big plus is honesy!...We find that being up front about what we want means that we dont get into situations that would be uncomfortable...to say the least! We dont require "Bi" male play but if its something all agree on then it's a great plus but we also dont want homophobes who freak out when they find out that i can be bi in the right situation....(been there done that don't wanna go there again!!) Keep the profile the way it is...you'll find that the responses you get will be from those who... in principle anyway.. are what you are looking for...and who knows ...maybe even be what you want to make a connection with... Mister B
  14. Welcome to swingland!!! Yes most couples list the male as straight,..... if your ad has both of you listed as bi you will be surprised how many supposedly "Str8" males and couples will contact you and express their "Bi" side. It's a pathetic double standard in this lifestyle that drives me bonkers!!!Most of the people that respond to our ads on SLS or Swappernet have the male listed as str8 ( some even express many times throught the profile how "STR8" the man is and "OH NO WE DONT WANT NO BI MALES!!!"...then they write us and say they are interested!!!!.... but they always say "oh yea he's bi or is really bi curious and its so hard to find bi couples" Really?? we dont find it that hard,we get responses every day!!..The tough part is actually finding sincere people that we are attracted to!! I will give you a peice of advice though...pictures bring in responses to the ads...dont have to be face shots...but pics really change the amount of people who will write you. And list your male half as bi or bi curious...you'll be surprised how many "bi" couples come out of the woodwork! Take care and keep looking they are out there everywhere!!!! Misterbates facelick
  15. Used to think like that..just jump in the sack and who cares if i ever see you again. But that was long long long ago...newbies and the very seasoned tend to be like that. Now we find ourselves very very very very selective almost to the point of being nonswingers (lol), over the years we have found that sex with people you dont know is pretty unfulfilling. Yes we have been burned many times by couples we thought were freinds but had major issues that they kept from us.and it sucks to lose people you start to care about but we keep looking.because thats who we are. we usually get to know a couple or single first,how much time that takes depends on the people involved,sometimes its a few emails and phone calls and we screw on the first meet,other times we meet a few times and hang out and party then play when the time is right,but i can say that at clubs or parties we almost never will hook up with a cple that we just met without shooting the shit for a while,if they are that desperate to jump into bed so quickly they are not for us. sorry but like others have said if i don't like you as a person i dont wanna have sex with you....maybe that makes me an unusual guy but thats who i am.
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