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  1. Hello everybody, for those active swingers, may i ask who knows about your swinger activities? Karen
  2. Hello, welcome to a little poll and discussion about "principles vs the heat of the moment". Are swingers very disciplined concerning principles like for example always using condoms? What happens to your principles when things actually happen: a party, a little drunk, sex everywhere... The discussion should not be limited to condoms, but all broken principles and arrangements are the topic, e.g. only soft swap, no kissing, never in different rooms, always this, never that, and so on ...
  3. @ xxoticangel: is the "no kissing" rule for both of you or is it ok for you if she kisses other men?
  4. @ leftcoastcouple: Interesting - I have to admit that I did not expect the combination kissing and intercourse, but no oral... never heard of such a combination before. Let us see if I missed other combinations.
  5. While the poll should give some overview, I would like to know a little more on why couples exclude certain kinds of sex when swinging. Is it the man or the woman who would like to exclude intercourse/kissing as a rule (not just in an individual case)? Does the man not want his wife to have intercourse with/kiss another man? Or the other way around? And why: jealousy? STDs? other fears? Did your rules change?
  6. @ T & T > Us personally we would never try to get pregnant with a swing partner. > Mainly because of the legal ramifications, and also just how would you explain it to family. These are the reasons for you not to do it? So, the main reason not to take this option into account is the society you live in. What about yourself? What would you do in a world without DNA-Tests, without any control from outside of your relationship? I find it interesting that you talk about legal ramifications and family. My main reason not to consider having another man's baby are in my feelings towards my husband and that he wants to be the father of our child. confusing topic isn't it? Karen
  7. Did you (sometimes) use ONLY condom for Birth Control, or was it in combination with the pill or another Birth Control method? Karen
  8. Hi, on this forum I read a lot about birth control when swinging. I would like to know if you already used a method with a commonly high failure rate, when having sex during swinging. (this poll is not related to sex with your own wife or husband) Or do you ALWAYS use rather safe methods like the pill, or a combined method like condom combined with withdrawal? Karen
  9. Hello, Planning our first full swap, my husband and me are discussing a lot about it. He told me that he has no problems with jealousy when I have sex with another man. What makes me wonder a bit though is that he said it really arouses him to picture me with another man. It is ok for me that he has sex with another woman, but I am not aroused by this... Looking forward to your opinions! Karen
  10. Hi again, this poll and the postings are very interesting for me. Thanks for all the feedback. I would just like to make some points clear: first of all my question was about temptation - many of the postings argue with consequences (financial, emotional, legal...). I think temptation is not thinking about consequences. Thats the next step: doing it or not - thats why we are humans and not animals! Many answers avoided to deal with temptation - why? I can also say that i would NEVER do it, but could i be tempted...? i have to admit: yes. This gave me a lot to think about - what is swinging really about? only fun? Or do i want to sleep with other men, because some part of me wants them to become a father? Hard questions and answers! Karen PS: i have read a statistic that about 15% of us have other fathers than we think...
  11. Hi again, Just some hours ago, i posted a question on preventing pregnancy when swinging. Got the hint to search the old posts for this topic and I found lots of information. What surprised me most is that there are some swinger actually thinking about or playing with the risk to become pregnant with a swinging partner. I have to admit that it is a naughty and somehow tempting idea to play the real game, but I think I will never consider doing this. Until now I thought of swinging as only fun...
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