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fredandwilma200

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  1. I know this is weird....but my husband is around 7" and we can most of the time barely get it in the front alone...I couldn't imagine doing two...but I do love dp...that is for sure. To any ladies out there...are there any things that you can do to (pardon this) "loosen up"? Thanks.
  2. My husband and I have a 14 year age gap between us. He is going to be 41 soon and I just turned 27. We dont think of it much however, some people ask if he is "loaded" LOL if only they truly knew..LOL The one problem that we did have is that my step kids and I are closer in age. My step son is only 8 years younger then I and my step daughter is only 9 years younger then I am. So this has caused some problems in the house. I.E. step son no longer lives with us or his bio mother. Step daughter doesn't like it because she thinks I should be more of a friend then telling her what to do...but she no longer looks at the situation that way..she now sees me as some "old" lady..LOL
  3. I agree enough is enough...Feed our need....LOL
  4. Husband and I always use our real names! However, have considered using other names. We NEVER give out our last names...We have been asked before. My answer to that is that we dont give it out due to discreetness. We would never ask...so we dont tell....To me....there is no reason to know someones last name unless you are very close and continue to play or have "outside bed fun" as in family stuff....then to me its no big deal.
  5. Right now we are soft swap. We have had sex in the same room as another couple and had a male join us. We are looking for a single female to join us also but never realized how hard it is going to be, so at this time we are willing to alter to a couple however, we are not willing to swap. We are willing to have four in bed together having fun all together. I would consider oral swap but not full out and out full swap. If we did do the four together...I wouldnt mind him having sex while I am as long as we are in touching range....Maybe I think of this different then others.
  6. Yes, I agree that pregnancy is something that you should in fact worry about however, I think that over pregnancy I would worry about my now HIV status! This guy crossed your boundaries that you had set up with this couple! If he lied about this what else has he lied about? I would NOT be happy if this was my body or my husband! What did they say or do? In my case, they would have been well aware that I was mad! Don't worry about the way you acted, I would have done a lot more then that. .I think I would have looked to see if there was a lamp close by..but Ill let you use your imagination on what I would have done with that!
  7. Mr Naughty, How would you incorporate yourself into that situation? I'm sure a pretty female at home with out her husband could seduce a male " waterboy " but ...I just cant picture the whole scene and how you would get both of you to seduce him? Help me here...Maybe I dont understand "or maybe I just wanna hear those thoughts in your head" lol
  8. Had same thoughts here about the Pizza guy...however, what do you do order pizza and say "oh by the way would you like to join my husband and I in a threeway?" Not sure how to do it..so never done it... We also talked about husband being in the closet while me and the pizza guy go at it! But with our luck he would make something fall in there and give the damn pizza guy a heart attack! Could you not imagine? LOL anyway....If you figure out how to do this with tact let us know...I am sure that we may want to try it..if and when someone has some good ideas on how! (I guess the only other problem (that husband just reminded me of) is getting a pizza guy that is 1. over 18 2. NOT so bad that NO one wants him. 3. Not timid as hell!
  9. That was the whole thing...there was no face pics on what she saw it was a tatooe on my leg and ankle that I got when I was 15 that showed! And as far as the boss...he would take her side..to be honest sometimes it seems as though THEY have something going....everytime this lady is around and my boss is on the phone with his wife...they fight bad! Anyway....Husband and I talked about it..and figure if I loose my job so be it...What I do on my time and it doesnt involve my kids or work....then it is none of their damned business...so we are keeping the same name..and pics and said the hell with it..however, she has left me a few messages today acting as though she is a bi female...so hubby said play with her..act like you really dont know it is her and make her regret the day she added us to her yahoo. ..Im not so sure what I will do..I guess Ill think about it...and maybe get ideas off of this board....thanks for all your ideas, and thoughts..thanks
  10. I dont think that would matter since, the boss is stuck up her butt! She as I said in my other post...said she looked on yahoo and followed the link not knowing what she was getting into...she said she confronted me for my own good.....Yea right..
  11. Thanks for the advice so far....but just to add ( I dont know if this will help) If I tell ANYONE in my job that I am a swinger I risk loosing my job... At this point..I feel like saying what the hell! If I loose it then I get another one...Right? The only thing I would be worried about are my kids and having it affect them or if the lady at work would call DCF or something like that since...she has done this stuff before..to other people!
  12. This last month, someone from work saw my yahoo ID (she said she searched for people in her area and saw my photo which the photo didnt see the face but a tattoe on my leg is like no other) she saw a link on the bottom of the page to sls and followed it there..where..she found a few pictures of my husband and my self.....and of course..as we all know it was about swinging and what we are looking for! She confronted me and I told her that I have no idea what she is talking about! Two days ago, I was on our work computer and found that she had made up a yahoo ID....thinking the name was one that sounded as though I had heard it before..I went home and looked...Two days after she asked me if it was me....she added me...I sent her pics and we talked alot....Now what do I do...I should add that she is this "better then you person" and thinks that swinging is nasty and dirty...she has been acting really strange..and I think she has told a couple of people at work...so what do you all think...should I ignore it...say something even though I had denied it before? What now...thanks
  13. In our case we are that traveling couple. We travel to the same two places at least once every two months. But we are repeat visitors there...so we were not looking to play first time anyway but its nice to meet and chat over dinner or just to hang out somewhere! Just my two cents.
  14. To be honest, it seems kind of soon to tell. I know I was almost three weeks pregnant before we knew! I think that this sounds alittle "fishy" I dont think that in three days you would be able to tell!
  15. I Have voted no. My husband at one point did talk about if we wanted anymore children or not...And said NO WAY! He is not able to have children...but I am..but I could never ever think about it at all. We did have a scare not too long ago and I posted a question on it..ask opinions. NOTHING WAS DONE ON PURPOSE. It was just something that "happened". The condom broke and then I went nuts. I was two weeks late and I thought the worst. I went and had a pregnancy test and other tests done and thank god everything was ok. But no I couldn't think about that...TOO MUCH DRAMA!
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