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MrsBliss

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  1. I like it but it is not part of every play session. I think I have found a way to overcome the first few seconds of pain. After that I just relax and the pain is totally gone. He can enter me as often as he wants and we can also do it faster and deeper. I like the clitoral stimulation at the same time too...!!
  2. I always use my hands too, I don't think it will work any other way???
  3. We would send g-rated pics and we would very much like to receive g-rated pics. I think without a picture I would be hesitant to meet someone. The fact is that I can be really turned off by someones face. I don't like it that I am this way because I know that personality is more important, but my mind and body just work that way. I really have a hard time for example kissing someone I do not find attractive. Of course when you get to know someone he or she can become much more attractive because you like their personality, but that leads me to my current question : Do I want to swing with people in a club or do we want to meet and get to know them first. Mmm, I just did not decide yet on this last questions so I guess that maybe that could change my opinion about meeting without pics. Djeez, no answer here I guess, just more questions
  4. I totally disagree. I think swinging is about doing the thing you like. I would not be compromising on a basic rule like 'no separate rooms'. If I or my husband does not feel comfortable about something, it is just not going to happen. We are in for our fun. If our fun is also fun for another couple: then we will play. If not: we won't play. I think there are enough couples who have the same view about separate or same room, so why swing with a couple that has a different opinion?
  5. I looked for a name which would describe how I am feeling most of the time, so I looked in my dictionary (Dutch-English) and after looking through some words I found the word Bliss. I am almost always happy and my mother told me that I was born on a Sunday and born for luck. I really believe that I have a lot of luck, so that is why I chose the name Mrs Bliss. My husband then had to be Mr Bliss.
  6. Location: somewhere in the Netherlands would be quite nice I think within an hour distance is perfect so you can drive home afterwards without falling asleep behind the wheel. Friends: I think I like that, I would especially like to be friends with the woman, because it is nice to chit chat with someone about the lifestyle. Age: Between 25 and 40. Body type: average, not very skinny, not very obese. Interests: I want to be able to have a nice talk during the evening and also afterwards, so shared interests will be important. Could be horses, cars, news. It would be fun if they like dancing because I do! I would want them to be outgoing, not shy. Comfortable in their own relationship, mind and body. I do not like it when people are very insecure so that I have to reassure them. Mmm, need to start a search!
  7. Never noticed any mess We have had little experience however. Which fuss are you talking about? If you are not able to relax it hurts a little bit, but when you are relaxed then it feels very good. To me the biggest problem is that because I still need to take it quite slow, sometimes my excitement dissapears and it is just a "will it be ok or not' feeling. At that moment I am much more thinking about relaxing and about the things I can do to make the entering easier that my whole desire is just gone.
  8. I did not vote because I really would not know. I have been having sex from age 15 and I am now 28. I always had regular sex so I know for sure that once a week is enough without me 'needing' to have more. I think that for a period that I am not in love with someone I can easily forget about sex but I don't know for how long. With my husband it creates an extra bond to have sex so once a week would be a minimum. (Okay now I can vote ) Kiss!
  9. I would give my husband the opportunity to have sex with someone else. I love him, trust him and I know I have to offer more to him than just sex. I am not sure if I myself would find any need to have sex with someone else. I honestly don't think he would want me to have sex with someone else, but I am not sure.
  10. I like kissing!!! It gets me in the mood and when I am 'busy' it takes me to a higher level, like I am getting a little bit more unconscious of what I am doing (seventh heaven??). I am the kind of person which thinks a lot while I am doing just one or two things at a time. Give me three things to do and I will get wild. I would never cross anyone's boundaries and it would certainly not stop me from meeting you. Kiss! (oops sorry)
  11. I feel the same way. I would never want to cheat on my husband because I know it would hurt him very very much. Swinging just gives us both the opportunity to enjoy others, to flirt and to have new experiences without feeling guilty. I am more relaxed about a lot of things than he is. For example, I would let him have sex with another woman without me being present. He will not consider the opposite in any way. I am okay with that, I am not out to hurt his feelings and I do not need to have sex with someone else without him being present. We just have different opinions on this subject and we will follow the limits of the most limited party here and maybe we will come across issues where I will have stricter limits.
  12. I have never noticed any mess when doing it anal with my husband but I do think that I would feel the same as you do when someone new would enter our game or when I would go to a club. We just recently ordered something which you can use to clean your little hole. It is like a little pump where you can put in water and than spray it in. Don't know if it will work but we will try.
  13. The guy my husband and I talked about is not a close friend of us. We know him for a couple of years, went skiing with him 3 times (with a group) and we see him maybe 3 times a year. Lately we have been calling a little bit more but I would not call him a close friend. I like him however and I know I would feel comfortable around him. That has to do with the fact that I know how important hygiene is for him and that it seems a little bit safer regarding STD's because we know him (we still will be using condoms). I also know he is a sweet guy and I think that for my first MFM (thanks Mr Naughty) I would appreciate a guy which will also be nice, sweet and slow instead of only horny.
  14. Thanks for all your comments, they are really very usefull!
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