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GaHotNSexy

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About GaHotNSexy

  • Rank
    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 07/14/1975

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Dunwoody, Ga Just north of Atlanta
  • Interests
    Movies, dining out, reading, etc just normal everyday stuff... and looking for playmates of course...
  • Occupation
    He owns his own business and I am a make up artist...
  1. I just wanted to say thanks to you all for shedding a little light on this subject for me. I can see where it could be dangerous to either partner if things are not properly discussed and out there so that everyone knows what is going on and not just wondering what you are thinking. I think we are gonna be fine. It sure does seem to have brought us closer. The funny thing is this... Sex with others is so fun and you always feel so horny for this person or that person but in truth... or in our case... no one knows how to please me like my man. It is so much fun to let others try tho and oh so erotic for us both. I think that just knowing we are going to play gives us an extra boost as we go the the day sometimes.. That couple that was discussed about where the wife was cheating with the couple they swung withs husband are headed for trouble... If they stay in the lifestyle how can they swing with others and have complete confidence that the other is just there for fun and then back to the one he/she loves? I didnt think I would be able to handle the thought of my man with another woman but I was extrememly turned on by the fact that he wanted to share me. When it got right down to it... I wanted to share him too... Just the thought was turning me on extensively. Now we are stil new in this but in the same sentence I can say that I feel good about it this far and I think we have a lot of exploring to do and this is a very good thing for us both. I feel like if we always do things together (and this is our one and only limit thus far) always then we should have no problems. My question I guess is this... Do others swing seperatly. ?It seems more like that would be an open marriage and not just swinging. I dont want to think he would be meeting without me or I would be meeting without him. Is this a common practice?? Thanks... I am so full of questions lol...
  2. Ok...My hubby and I are relatively new to this lifestyle although we have talked about it extensively and are sure of each others limits etc... We have played with only three couples and a few single males. Recently I was on a different message board. (one for the club we have most recently gone too) and I have noticed that like 4 of them are talking about coming to the club "with their husbands before they divorced."... This concerns me a little... Mainly because not one of these 4 ladies will tell me what happened. I don't want to do anything to destroy my relationship with my hubby but i want to be able to explore and play. I don't want to badger them but being a woman too who goes to swinger clubs with my hubby I would just like to know why their relationships didn't work out and since they aren't willing to discuss that with me ( and i do not really blame them, since they don't know me from eve...) I am really wondering what happened? Are there any of you ladies out there who have had serious relationship issues related to this lifestyle? Can this cause divorce? They have all expressed that it was somehow related to this lifestyle... so I am curious now if there is someone out there who can give me so advice. I love my hubby with all my heart and i have found that no one can really please me like he can... It is just the thrill of the unknown that we crave. Thanks for your help... feel free to email me directly if you want... gahotnsexy@aol.com Monica HELP
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