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awider2000

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About awider2000

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  • Birthday 04/21/1960

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  • Relationship Status
    Single Male
  • Location
    NW Ohio
  • Interests
    uh that would be sex /porn/computers
  • Occupation
    Machinest
  1. Being a single male I can't cast my vote but I can say this is very encouraging. It would seem that single male swingers are not quite the bane of the lifestyle as some would lead to believe. It also would seem there is more; well maybe demand is not the right word here but you get my drift than some would like to think. I do know the online sites are a big hassel for couples and there are a lot of guys on there who say they are single but have a S.O.. would be nice if there were someway to weed through all that but, that is a drawback of the net. I continue to meet couples from online that want a single male swing partner for threesome and im hoping I found just the right couple but time will tell it out. Good to see a poll like this. Have a great day, Mike
  2. I was decent once then I took my cloths off HA!!! Some say YO some say WO Some say OH HELL NO!! Bows humbly to the experianced yawanna ;-)
  3. Thats cool really wasnt aiming at you. It just seems some folks have a really negative slant. like I said its understandable esp. when a creepoid does something bad. Peace, Mike
  4. r eh gee E.S. seems she likes you A single guy? sheesh. any way i am not looking for sympathy It would be nice though if folks would stop verbally bashing males single swingers and otherwise. I dont look at that as having sympathy to me thats just being decent. I do understand why some couples resent the large numbers of guys howling after them. If I were in there shoes Im sure id feel the same way. Happy Holidays, Mike P.S. I dont care if my spelling is right or not...lol
  5. I dated a girl up in Mich when I lived up there and she, well, I'd say was a gusher. Man I loved it, that hot cum splashing on my balls (sorry to be crude but for lack of better words) just sent me to the moon. We would go on and on. As a guy, for me anyway, I love it, the more the better!!
  6. all I can say is this is now im realy interested !!! whata great forum
  7. I have to agree that is reality so is the fact there are a zillion guys. But I pose the question do single swinging men swing with who? I would like to point out that I am but one single guy and I can only account for my self. I guess that's why I object to being lumped in. Also there are couples who only like to add males only to there sexual venue, and i suspect this has been long standing. I would simply like to close this way i do understand your problem with this but here again as you said you cant change the facts the single males are here. Complain all you want, it's you're right. I can only answer for myself.
  8. I have read some of the other post and i understand your not alone but im picking on you because well you started it LOL! I am sorry I'm not bitter just throwing in my 2 cents please don't take offense. Any way back to your last comment. I understand that you get barraged with a ton of e-mail and if it was me im sure i would feel the same way. However my point is this I dont answer to adds that indicate they are not interested in males. SLS does not exclude males from contacting anyone no matter what there preference. Swapper net if you so choose to do so has an option that you can block all e-mail from single guy's. I also have to tell you the couple that I play with right now approached me and so far its been great!! So being the newbie that I am so far I think its best to let couples contact me though that probably will not stop me from reaching out to them if they indicate that there interested in single males on there add. As far as inordinate numbers of guys I am sorry about that but i think you should be asking the question why not more females? This to me seems a better solution. P.S. No insult meant ok, just voicing my viewpoint
  9. Hmmm Lucky I think maybe the right term. I have met with three different couples with three very different ressults. I meet and play with just one couple right now. After much much work on my part ive found it is better to be found than to chase.If that makes any sense to you I think its better to let the couple approach you. So Relax you might just get lucky...:-D Mike newbies words of wisdom LOL.
  10. from original post What, if anything other than a 3rd participant, do single MEN offer or bring to swinging that enhances or furthers swinging in general? And I mean overall..not those few that a couple find enhancing and a 'good guy'. I have always had, and continue to, have doubts as to their intentions and stated reasons for participating, those reasons being a parroting back of what couples say swinging is for them and what they achieve from it. Ok if you didn't want to bash male swingers then I guess you shouldn't start out with a statement like this. As for the rest of your original post it smacks of bias as far as wtf are you single guys doing here any way? I mean hey c'mon now, I didn't see any rule that says a single guy can't swing. Also you seem to infer that single females offer much more? In your reply to my post it seems you have changed your stance some bravo to you but I think you are in denial about what you started here at least in part. I am not some wacko and i do date outside the swinging venue mostly because it is good to keep all your options open. I do meet with a couple on and off and we enjoy each others company we keep it friends and i have no intention of moving in on there relationship.We have a great time and i want to keep it at that. I will tell you about another couple that I have had experience with. This should set you back and make you rethink. This couple I met and began to become"friends" with (my first couple ever) so i asked a lot of questions. Like is your relationship solid/are you SURE you want to do this/Did you discuss this at length etc. etc. Ok so I did all this only to find out i was being lied to and to top it off the FEMALE is doing all the talking AND she wants to have "feelings" toward me. (Anyone see something wrong here?). This whole situation became a major mess. So you see I get a little aggravated when I see a post like this insinuating that guys are trying to get between couples? To take a big paint brush and lay it on single male swingers like that is just not right. Obviously I can only speak from my limited experience as others have on this post. In the end all that can be said is in Swinging as in everything else in life, you're gonna find all kinds and unfortunately that means there are bad people. BUT fortunately there are good ones too. Your Original Statement/question really lays a bad rap on guys all i can say is if you think this is for couples/females only and that's what you like that's all good . But please don't go bashing around the single guy there seems to be enough interest out there from couples and single females to keep us around.
  11. From reading this post and others like it im beginning to wonder what im doing here. Sounds like every one prefers clubs wich i know of and have been invited to one . I meet with a couple on and off and have no issues that im aware of. We keep it sex only and friends. I read all this stuff about single males and it just depresses me to bad there are a few flakes to mess it up for the rest of us. Thanks, Mike
  12. To be honest to say that there are all these girls lined up and i dont even have to try ? Obviously you have no idea what your talking about. It is easier to get laid with non swinging single girls than couples. I can in all HONESTY tell you that. I am not sure what your gripe is almost sounds like you had a bad experience or your reasoning as to why you dont want to add a guy to your sex life (I'm talking to the original poster here). In any case why do ya gotta bash male single swingers?
  13. Id like to take a stab at this.. For me I began this because I seem to have a higher than normal sex drive for one . And traditional relationships dont really allow for this type of sex. Also the thought of threesomes makes me crazy lol . I think porn is a definate factor at least to get the idea rolling as in group sex, Gang Bang and DP . Also I enjoy being with people and to me this is a good way to enjoy them. I realise this may be scattered but hey lol, Mike
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