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  • Birthday 07/25/1959

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    girl/girl soft swing voyuerism

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  1. word play, just word play!! single men get to play with swingers!! If he calls himself a swinger, cool! If he doesn't, cool!! Debating this is simple mental masturbation!!
  2. OK, well since we've only been in it for over a year, we can't tell you what it was like. We can tell you that we're still in the "kid in a candy store" phase. We started out trying to meet couples, met some, but never found it to be all that great, somehow it's never a four-way match. We were never in this for friendship in the first place. We want to know your sexual self, not your emotional self. We've met many people that although we didn't click personality wise when the party started we clicked like that. We've come to love the house party/hotel party, where there's a buffet to choose from. hehe... I'm sure in the past you had to be a little more involved with your swinging partners. I'm sure the amount of people was far fewer than today. Today, we can go to a party and pretty much decide how we want the night to go. She might want girl play, or maybe three guys. He might want two doing oral, or whatever! So we get the pleasure of why we came to do this in the first place, added sexual spice and fantasy's come true. We've also found that you get out of it what you put into it. we tell it like it is and we make no excuses or false statements. We love sex, we are quite playful and we'll make you smile!! We really could care less about your kids or jobs!! We want to know how many orgasms you'd like and how you like to be touched or stroked? what makes you wet or hard? So for us and many others we are meeting, this is about sex! And the women are driving it much more too these days, sexual diversity is here to stay.
  3. G puts "socially bi" because she has no desire to have a relationship with a woman. She does it all, and loves it all. so socially bi for us means she is bi during playtime and not in a full time scenario.
  4. For us it was the expansion of our sexual selves, and FUN!! We knew we had to work through the emotional part of doing this first though. Since Jealousy and insecurity are two top ten issues for couples, we knew they could come up. We actually got through it quite well. After having a dozen or so encounters now and a year to absorb it all, we are closer, more loving, and more sexual!!
  5. we have a simple rule which is: all contact should be between all parties at the same time. If it's a single male he only talks to us when were together. If it's a couple, one of us may do the emails but when it comes down to any real-time interaction (chat, phone, meeting) all parties must be there. This way it prevents any misunderstanding and weeds out the dogs.
  6. We talked about this last night and for us it's a matter of "practice of values". Most couples who entertain coming into the lifestyle or who are in it, have worked so hard on communication, honesty, and loving one another that the thought of hanging out with or being with a person or persons who don't practice such value sets in their own relationships to be unattractive. When you work so hard to make your relationships work it is a real turn-off to be around people who don't. I don't hang around people who don't try in life. I won't hang around or be with dishonest people. I won't have much in common with someone who doesn't know how to be loving. I don't hang around people who cannot control their liquor. We discriminate because we have values, but we don't do it for the wrong reasons. We do it for the right reasons, because our values are different. A married man not informing his wife does not hold the same value system we do. K, nuff said
  7. Bummer dude, well when it comes to talking again explain that you never want to hold back sharing something with her and you've had the fantasy floating around in your head. Let her know that you've always been honest and don't want to hold back for fear of her reaction.
  8. IAKATZ, You have discussed this with your wife and she has said she does not want to hear about it. You have permission, and it was discussed, you are not a cheater!! The other gentleman's woman said "no". So he's cheating!
  9. mmmmm, another interesting question here. Does living in a more rural area cause you to want more friendship as compared to an urban area where there may be 100's of couples available and less need of friendship?
  10. When she told me she had dated women before me and the rest was history.
  11. Started out as soft swap and that lasted about six months. We went full swap last month but like the variety so we'll still do soft. It's interesting how each experience teaches you something and how most of the fears you have seem to be unfounded. Since we started as soft swap we will do our part in helping others into the lifestyle by always be willing to help newbies. Of course we'll still be looking to go all out in a frenzied orgy as well!!
  12. Male here, I am the pickier one. she bases her choice on cock size and some personality traits whereas I need a general overall sexiness feeling from the woman physically and emotionally. So my needs can take more time to fill which leaves me killing the deal alot of the time.
  13. We actually prefer that first shot! We look for single guys for one specific reason.... SEX with a nice cock..... We have met lots of nice guys but when the pants dropped I could see the misses lose all excitement. For her this is just sex, she has no desire to start friendships, ask about the kids, or how his parents are. Looks are nice, personality a plus but what matters most of all to us is that he's sensual, knows how to seduce, and has a nice cock.
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