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Lee6657

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About Lee6657

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    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 06/14/1972

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    M. Male
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    Oklahoma
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    xx/xx/xxxx
  1. Ok I had to pipe in even though it's uncomfortable. I'm her husband and yes I am on the site. I was here before her. Her jealousy level of wanting to know everything said even in a forum post lead her to join also. She justifies her behavior by asking her own question. But my question to her is: Why this forum out of the multitude of others she could have chosen instead? Why, to follow me. She means well but subconsciously denies the level of jealousy she exhibits. Try discussing a subconscious denial issue with someone who has kept so many secrets in her life that her family jokingly refer to her as an undercover CIA operative. Not kidding. She naturally keeps information compartmentalized. I bet she knows who killed Kennedy if you ask the right question. Yes we talk. It's interesting and not boring...��
  2. If the three way you are referring to is us and another guy, yes we have discussed this. First point I would make is how does that address her jealousy issue. Second is I am not into direct involvement with her and her other cock. I don't even want to be in room. I actually prefer her not even knowing I am watching. I prefer an unencumbered real reaction by both of them. If your idea was a three way of us and another woman. Honestly that would be so funny. We have discussed it and her reaction is not sexy or encouraging. She reacts negatively to just talking about another woman. She also expresses that she isn't into women at all. So not going to happen. Just to reiterate the jealousy level of my wife. She also started a message string on this forum. Yeah she totally is comfortable and trusting... Her jealousy is very flattering on one hand and scary as hell on the other. She is way out of my league in looks. She appears at least 10 yrs younger than me. She works out everyday and eats right. To say the least she is a very attractive athletic redhead. Yes she has Irish heritage. That might explain a few things Talk to you later.
  3. Well said and some of it is being discussed. There still seems to be a real sense of jealousy regarding her actually talking about possible opportunities for me. Although she says she's ok with me dipping my toes in the water she wants control over it... The water body, the temperature, the time spent, the water quality, etc... When pointed out that when she goes swimming the only real stipulations have been for her safety, her enjoyment, and that the truth must always shared. No secrets allowed. She hasn't been able to rebut the arguments presented, however she does like to redirect the points. My wife sounds like a self centered, manipulative, person and in some ways I have fostered the behavior. She would just call herself stubborn. I sound like a sex starved, brow beaten husband, but that really isn't the case. I hadn't desired this until last couple years. Did I mention I'm not a very social person. I am friendly with people I get to know but large social gatherings bother me. I'm writing a book so I'll leave it there and say thanks for a least letting me vent.
  4. Thank everyone that has commented. You have all presented very friendly and truly insightful discussion. Sometimes admitting a mistake is hard, but lack of knowledge seems to have been my greatest weakness. I do share these with my wife and she agrees we have been going about this the wrong way. The sites recommended will be investigated. My reservations about these sites has been due to testing the waters and finding sharks and thousands of piranhas attacking. Weeding through the mess was like driving blind through a mine field. Honestly talking here has renewed my trust that maybe there are people like us and this can be fun.
  5. You hit the nail on the head with the unequal situation. These posting have actually helped answer some questions and figure somethings out. I am not really desiring another woman so much as the excitement of something new. I gave some thought to when and why the subject comes up and its when my wife is not going out. We discussed the new revalations and are looking for a better way to satisfy the Hotwife fun by finding a better source for the men. We do communicate and the stepping out is onesided. She has discussed a couple swap in same room may possible for her. This seems a little controlling seeing as she refuses to even take pics or video most times with her the other men and definately nothing on first sex date. Now understand often the men she sees don't know about our arrangement and most assume it's an affair but just sexual. Problem with living in Oklahoma's small towns. Adult FF has been used but often liars and other issues arrive from it. Also just talking to her about another woman she gets upset and uptight and judgemental. So what makes her believe she would be ok in the same room? Now I haven' t been with another woman in a long time. So I don't think its unfair to ask for modicum of privacy and comfort. Yes my wife is a one sided jealousy nut but she's a wonderful woman. This realy seems to be about the only flaw she shows.
  6. Read up on this HOTWIFE it does describe us very well. Now my query becomes do I just need her to be more active? I find I want to have recipricatory feeling with another woman. No I don't already have any realationships or girlfriends. Zero. Shes not supportive and even gets angry and hurt if I discuss it.
  7. Good to know. Never heard of that desription but ut fits well. Thank you.
  8. First time in discussion. Married 24 years, wife plays but I haven't. We are both strictly straight. Wife has been involved for several years with other men, some single, married, older and younger. I enjoy her being enjoyed. No known actual swingers but more like fwb and sexual affairs. I have been interested in doing the same thing, however my wife is not supportive or encouraging.
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