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Dexter54

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About Dexter54

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  • Birthday 06/30/1962

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  1. I think this is where his head is at, as I keep bringing four way play and he stays focused on the Mrs. They have been married for 20+ years so I assume he is dying for variety. We don't tell anyone about our lifestyle. The three times we have tried it runs everyone off, and we were trying to be cool about it. Great post, thanks for the thoughts
  2. Three more excellent post ! Yes I believe the two way communication over many days I was not comfortable with as Dom's are experienced enough they don't have that need. I actually think I felt disrespected. I know goofy. Asncol; your right in that i did not communicate my limits like I should have, but to be honest I got caught by surprise. My sub and I had an open honest communication (like I was supposed to have had) and I told her how it impacted me. She is a good girl and didn't want to disappoint me which made me totally cool with the different culture and this Mr enthusasism for my sub I believe there is a difference for those of us that are Dom's in that we have to give up a little control and patience accepting those that are not from our world. Otherwise, I agree everything else is the same........except a lot less toys!
  3. Very helpful Lionheart Yes after Alphabetty's and s few other suggestions I realized I simply needed to get back to the basics with the person I love and communicate with her. I was thinking the rules of the road in swinging are different and I needed to chill out. As you probably know I live to provide, protect and bring joy to my submissive for the gift she gives me so I didn't want to rain on her parade. I think this guy will end up being ok he just doesn't approach interaction with a disciplined approach probably due to lack of physical experience. There are a lot of over eager beaver hunters out there in both worlds, lol Good stuff, thanks for the help !
  4. Thank you AngelKin for your supportive words. I was going to give up on my question, but the rest of you have been very helpful. I am touched by your Valkyrie spirit!
  5. Ok that helps! It is that way in our other world, but I want to be cool with the swinging community. My Mrs is a very attractive lady so I'm sure it is just excitement on his part. Thanks
  6. Well that was quite harsh! I don't believe you fully understand the D/s relationship and the depth of love, trust and respect associated with it. She is not my slave she is my submissive there is a difference. Anyway, my question was simply I guess what is too much attention, or too much texting?
  7. My wife and I played in the BDSM world and recently switched over to swinging to meet some new people. I thought the same rules with couples applied, but maybe not. In the D/s world respect for another Dom and what is his is a big deal, but that doesn't seem to apply with a couple we just met. Did the coffee thing all that was cool, got on a 4 way KIK to communicate until we could meet next month. After a short period of time every time I look at my phone the new Mr is texting my Mrs. This has happened every single day and I think he is up tp 12 pictures nude and non-nude he has requested and been given. I chalked it up to beginning enthusiasm, and in the evenings we all engaged in group sextext and talking, so after a week or so I thought it would even out. However three weeks later, every day he is texting her with long threads. She is submissive and of course enjoys the attention, so I have let her enjoy herself. Other couples we have met this constant texting doesn't seem to come from the guys, and I would never see this is in BDSM world. I am very open about play, but this has actually gotten on my nerves. I can't figure out if I'm jealous and protective or just annoyed and feeling disrespected. Not new to group sex but new to swinging, so I would love to hear some thought
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