Hi! I've just found this forum. I guess I'm looking for some advice. My husband and I (both 36 years old) have been together for 5 years and we have talked about swinging for about 4 years. We are also both bi curious. The biggest thing holding me back is how I look. I've had children so I don't look how I used to. I have a lot of stretch marks and loose skin on my stomach and upper thighs and my breasts are now smaller and look kind of deflated. We have talked to some couples but all the women look "normal" and I feel so insecure. I know I looked like this when we got together and he says he thinks I look perfectly fine but I feel like I would be compared to other women and come up short and would ultimately be the ugly one in the room. Has anyone felt like this or had any experience with it?