Flirtycup13

Thanks coupleinmd79. Food for thought. Goldcocouple, thank you, a lot of what you said makes sense.

I will message you her email.

My wife and I just started into all this a few months ago. She also has had kids, the last were twins. They really,as I say "kicked her body's ass". She started out very nervous and insecure. We went on couples dating sites and started talking with others( mostly men). We got a kik account and started chatting. While chatting, we would explain her worries and ask got understanding. Then send photos. Every time we did she got postive to very positive feed back. She found that most men are understanding and just enjoy women as a whole. I can tell you I have seen a crazy change in her confidence. She doesn't even worry near as much now. If nothing else comes from us trying this, I couldn't be happier with her new found self esteem. If u would like she could send u a pic and you could compare body's. Then talk with her directly. Good luck, I hope u start to see what your husband sees.

My wife and I (married 20 years) started talking about all of this a few months ago. We both have had very limited other sexual experience. While we have tried to explore, we have found we are stuck at the point of intimacy. I don't have a problem with her having sex, but I do have a problem with her being intimate with others. I mean, talking on a deeper level, or having soft sensual sex ( i.e. Kissing and lots of touching/caressing) with someone. She says she doesn't really need these things but says she enjoys herself much more when she can. I believe I'm being selfish about this, that's to say, I don't mind sharing parts of her but not all of her. Has anyone had to deal with this, and if so how? I've been reading a lot of posts and comments after and some have helped. But I can't find anything like this yet.