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  1. The other counts too. I just threw that out as an example. I'm not excluding anyone I'm just didn't go over all scenarios. I was intending this to just be a fun thing to talk about but I'm feeling like maybe it somehow got complicated. I didn't include male on female oral either, but that is fine to include in that category as well. I'm far from trying to make a heteronormative statement here, I was just attempting to provide an example.
  2. Okay, let's say penetrative sex. I don't think fingering counts for this. That's more fooling around. So let's say penetration is required. Cumming isn't necessarily required to count though. If you want to throw in a specific number about blowjobs on the side, I think that's fine. I'm mostly asking about how many people you have gone all the way into full penetrative sex though.
  3. What can I say? It would be a crime for me to not show off my best assets. When you have long legs, you have to use them to your advantage.
  4. Since many in here have well been into swinging for awhile, I imagine the number of partners you have been with has probably gone up quickly. If you include people outside of swinging (college, exes, etc) how many people do you estimate you have had sex with in your lifetime so far?
  5. May not be that wild, but... There is a manager at work that is very good looking. I hadn't thought about him before, but some time ago I was sitting next to him with my legs crossed at his desk going over some stuff and I was wearing a somewhat short skirt and some heels that day, and I thought I might have caught him sneaking glances at my bare legs. I wasn't too sure at first but when he stood up to grab something as he was coming back I saw an unmistakable bulge in his pants and he clearly had an erection. We were being professional, but I couldn't help but be turned on by the fact that he was clearly hard for me and maybe even fantasizing about me. I had this daydream about him placing his hand on my leg while we were chatting and working his hand up my skirt, and I immediately just swung my legs over him and straddled him sitting on his lap and unbuttoning his shirt while making out. I'd slide down and open his pants and pull his cock out and give him a long wet blowjob until he couldn't hold back anymore and then he would stand up and spin me around and push me over his desk, lift my skirt and slide himself inside me and thrusting himself hard inside me. He'd wrap his arm around my upper body and pull me up close to him as he would speed up his thrusts as he was nearing the point of cumming and I would start to moan and breathe heavily and finally he would just explode inside me. I'd turn around, give him a kiss, pull my skirt down, adjust myself and leave the office like nothing had happened and walk out in front of everybody, knowing what we just did, but no one else knew....unless they heard me moaning... That was my fantasy. We, of course, stayed professional and parted ways like co-workers, but I had that entire fantasy while we were sitting next to each other. I really wish I knew what his fantasy was at that moment.
  6. Awesome. Good to know. Since so many reality shows have been revealed to have been scripted I had my doubts, but it seems enough people can verify them, so I'm actually really glad to know that its all legit. I'll have to watch some of those episodes again with fresh eyes now.
  7. Yeah, if what you say is correct and you have communicated, you are possibly heading into trouble I would say. Everything needs to be based on mutual respect. I might suggest the next step is to see if the two of you can agree to step away from the lifestyle part of things for a little while and focus on each other. It sounds like there is a possibility that she is headed towards or already in an emotional affair. I'm really not the biggest fan of the "hall pass" mentality of allowing your spouse to wander around and play separately. I feel this lifestyle works best with both participating or not at all. However, I'm basing that on my feelings and I can't pretend to know or dictate what works best for another couple. What I can say though is that based on what you have said, it obviously isn't working for you so there is a problem. I get that people in the lifestyle can make friends with partners. That's okay, but from what I have read and what I have been told so far, it is not common for couples to hang out with one or another on an individual level. Usually its more of a double date kind of thing. Not always of course, and I have heard of instances where maybe the girls or the guys hang out separately, but they usually aren't super frequent as far as I can tell. The fact that your wife and this guy are spending so much time together is worrisome in my opinion. My feeling is that part of making the lifestyle work means that a couple needs to agree that at any sign of problems, discomfort, or issues (personal or otherwise) one party should reserve the right to end the lifestyle or activity at any time. If the relationship is built on respect and trust and confidence, then this shouldn't be much of a problem for anyone. At the very least I doubt its common to take a temporary break from it. There could be a variety of reasons (death in the family, wanting to have a baby, change in career, or anything that may result in the lifestyle causing an excessive layer of stress at the moment). So I think the next test is to see if you two can agree to just take a break. People in this lifestyle seem to be a very understanding and supportive group so I imagine that if you tell them that you are taking a break they will all understand and send you best wishes and will be happy to reconnect with you if\when you decide to return. If you two can successfully take a break and she can stop seeing him temporarily or permanently as you two may agree to, then I think this has a shot or working out long term and keeping your relationship intact. If she doesn't think she can stop seeing him and argues that "they are just friends," then I think you may have a serious problem on your hands and may need to consider that there are deep marital issues around the corner. Best of luck.
  8. All great points and thank you all kindly for the advice. We are deciding to take it slower at this point. The pressure of rushing and pushing this whole thing has become a bit overwhelming, so we are going to get take a break on the idea of actually going to a club for now and just take some time to sit and process this whole thing. There are still a lot of feelings to sort through and it isn't a decision to take lightly. We'll know when the time is right.
  9. Personally, I think it's simple- you are not communicating to her and you are not telling her how you really feel. You say you don't want to be unfair to her, but withholding your feelings isn't unfair to her- it's unfair to yourself. You think you are making her happy by bending over backwards about this, but why is possible long term resentment the better option? She can't do right by you if you don't tell her how you feel and give her the chance to. The first tenant of the lifestyle is communication and honesty. You are lapsing on that and that is the part that is unfair. Talk to her and do it now. In a marriage one person can't be happy alone. You both need to be. She is carrying on because you are teaching her that it is okay with you to do so. You teach people how to treat you in life, so when you make your feelings clear, you give her the information she will need to do right by you and your marriage. Best of luck
  10. I can't feel the actual fluid, but I can feel the pulsing and throbbing of his cock inside me when he does, if he happens to stop thrusting when he cums.
  11. This is for the ladies. Maybe we can do a separate thread for the lads, but at the moment I'm more interested in the ladies retelling. Describe the very first time you had your first full swap experience. Yes this area is filled with retellings of the linear events leading up to the moment, but I'm more interested in hearing about your emotions and the feelings you felt the moment someone not your husband/partner entered your body. What position were you in? How did you feel leading up to it? What was in your mind that moment he slid himself completely inside you? Was it surreal? Terrifying? Liberating? How did you feel when he finished? Did you orgasm? Yes some context of what lead you there is helpful, but unlike the other threads, I'd love to hear the emotional details of how you felt and your state of mind. Your feelings. Please share.
  12. I'm not a size queen personally. The average of 5in - 6in does the trick for me. I think girth has more of an effect than length for me. I'm a bit smaller down there, so thickness has a bigger impact on me. I think there is such a thing as too big though. I'd honestly probably be a little scared to take something as big as 8in or 9in. I'd probably try it but I'd be pretty nervous.
  13. Ooh, a suggestion to add to the above, for safety and security. A lot of people like to text or call. You may not want to give out your personal cellphone number. Most people know and use kik for messaging, but for the phone number, I suggest creating a free Google Voice number and just forward it to your cellphone instead. That way if you ever decide to leave the lifestyle behind, all you have to do is disconnect your Google Voice phone number or shut it off temporarily if you just need to take a break. That adds an extra buffer between your vanilla life and your swinger life.
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