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NOTVALID

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About NOTVALID

  • Rank
    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 06/06/1964

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    M.MALE
  • Location
    EAST MIDLANDS
  • Interests
    most sports.
  • Swinging Experience
    nil
  • Anniversary
    xx/xx/xxxx
  1. Well we went to Amsterdam. Visited the RLD, she seemed to enjoy it, and we saw a sex show. She enjoyed it, or said she did, however she did not want to go the next night. Talked about going to a Swingers club, she decided not to. On return, she said she wished shed had visited to see what it is like. I am not sure If I will ever crack her code. I cannot support her more than I do, I never have and never will judge her. She slightly opened up and said she would feel she let me down. I said she would not be. Maybe it will open up a new confidence in her. She deliberated, then said she felt she would look to old, there really is only so many times you can build up a confidence, as I say, I have no experience sexually and am just as shy, for her I just try to make things as easy as possible, maybe I have been trying to hard? Holiday wise we had a great time.
  2. coupleinMD79. What a great reply, I think you nailed it. Yes I feel I have missed out. She was so sexually repressed when we met, it was hard for me, as we were both virgins when me met. In fact we had our first kiss together. Somehow I had to take on the role of guiding her whilst having no experience myself. Shyness is the biggest understatement. I really feel like I could never partake, a) I would not feel comfortable b)If I enjoyed the experience and she "dies" when she goes and leaves the club or becomes embarrassed, I feel it would devastate her. It is almost impossible to talk sex, now and again she opens up, if there is any pause for a second, she stops talking sex. In England there is a company that sells sex aids and Lingerie, they had a fun yes/no to questions, she would not even do that. Outside of this, she would do anything for me, and I mean anything. Hopefully out of the Country she will relax more. Your comments were really appreciated.
  3. I will back her to the hilt, however in view it took her 20 years to partake in a 69, I am worried for her that it is her Kindle and not her thinking.
  4. I will try and cut this as short as I can. I am 52 and wife just turned 50. Both were virgins when we met and there has only ever been the 2 of us SEXUALLY. It has been hard through the ages, Mrs N, still gets embarrassed if the light is on or when she wears the mildest of lingerie. One minute you can talk to her about sex..the next she is embarrassed, she rarely brings the subject up in any form. Owing to the above, I tread carefully for her confidence. About 4 years ago she got a kindle, since then her thought pattern about sex has become confusing to me. She is always reading about sex,yet the real thing seems to evade her. No matter how you try it, it is a taboo subject. Then a programme came on and out of the blue, and I think it was partly to do with what she reads, she says she would like to visit a Swingers Club. However, she would feel awkward if she went with me, I asked why? I would go with her so she had company, however I am not interested, so if she went off, I would just wait. Sexually as she has been so repressed, I feel I have missed out, I do not want her to feel the same (I am strong mentally, so it is not because she feels I am weak). So to now, we are going on holiday, she agreed she would like to go, and would I take her, she knows I have no interest and that's fine. However, I have read you need to wear lingerie etc when you walk around, even if she decides just to observe. I am worried about her confidence, if she is embarrassed to wear it in front of me after all these years', how will she wear it in front of strangers. What if she does something and then regrets it, I am not going to ask if she did/did not, however I am sure a guess would be close to the truth. Is it possible the Kindle has given her a false Idea of the life or is it maybe what she needs. She came from a family who stated just kissing in public is dirty (maybe help with the profile). What do you experienced folk think. Sexually I am still active with her, however she has to be in the right mood, not often. Sorry for long-winded story.
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