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Oclafsti

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About Oclafsti

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  • Birthday 06/10/1988

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  1. By far the best answer I have received in here. Especially the first part. Thank you so much for this I needed to hear it.
  2. Very very true. Way too many emotions and insecurities at young ages and new relationships. Will lead to demise .. What do you suggest then as an alternative since we have such strong urges and fantasies to do this , as an alternative ?
  3. Very true. I feel like their is too many feelings and insecurities involved at a young age and it can be destructive. What do you suggest since we both have these very strong fantasies then as an alternative ?
  4. That's what I thought. How could you be scared to leave me when we are madly in love just over sex? So you can see how it was so shocking for me to hear right ? :-/
  5. This is just how I felt and how I thought she felt. I wasn't insecure at all about her leaving because I'm confident in my skills as a lover in and out of bed. That's why it was so shocking to hear her bring this up.
  6. I meant 5 inch "around"as in the circumference and 7 inches long. I didn't know 5 was average if you mean length. I guess I always compare others to the way my brain works. My brain never even thinks for one second I'd leave her for another girl so it's hard to fathom when she says that's a concern she'll like a guy. I guess we all think different though. Thanks for your time.
  7. So my gf (21) and I (28) are very much in love. We see our future together. We both share very deviant sexual fantasies. My biggest are MMF and watching her get fucked. She recently said it's her biggest fantasy too. Anyway, tonight she said she doesn't want to do it because she's scared she will possibly start liking the guy. I dug deeper and she said she's only been either me and one other guy so she's scared she will enjoy the sex better with him and she'll leave me for him. How would you take this? I thought we were on equal fields and this thought never crossed into my mind if we had a FFM threesome so I figured it was the same for her. So it was shocking to hear. I take it as she doesn't enjoy me too much in bed and in her head knows there's much better. I'm not huge. I'm just under 7 inches long and 5 inches around. I'm confused and this really ruined things and shocked me. How could she be scared to leave someone you love over a random sexual encounter with a guy you've never met? Any ideas how to take this as I'm feeling super insecure and may end things over this?
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