Hello everyone,
So I want to join the lifestyle, unfortunately my wife isn't going for it. I found interest when we accidentally booked a vacation to a swingers resort in Cancun.I just saw all the love that everyone had for each other (not meaning that everyone wanted to bone one another, but acceptance and non judgement)I did some research on the lifestyle and it is something that fits me and my personality 100%. I'm not trying to sleep with every woman I see I just don't believe in sexual monogamy, I think it should be shared among friends. However, I'm not going to cheat on my wife because of the love that I have for her.
I respect her decision 100% and want to figure out a way to make things work(win for her and for me). What can I do outside of pornography to help fill the void? should I bring it up to her again? or is the relationship doomed? We have been married for 2 years and I am 24 if that helps out. Thanks for everyone who read this far.
note:if you don't have anything helpful or nice please don't reply.