Sir&LittleMiss

That is the funniest story I have ever heard! Nothing like sending you Morse code for "come to bed NOW!"

That's another way to put it. I think when were describing desensitizing, we meant that you feel less from other things. But you're right Mr.Gold, it does over sensitize you and leaves you feeling a little...fuzzy, shaky, like you're still vibrating...HELL..you feel DAMN GOOD! I believe you start out looking like and end up looking like

It does take some getting used to. Every woman is going to want to use for different reasons and in different ways. To be honest, for me, it does desensitize me for a little bit during that play session. If I start out with the wand, I can't go,anything weaker, like say a pocket rocket, because I won't feel it. As for the sensation from a human touch, no it doesn't desensitize you. For me, there is nothing that can beat that. I don't think the wand will desensitize you completely. I think, at least for me, it is just for that session and then the next time you're fine and you start all over again. If Mrs. wants to try the wand, she might want to use it toward the end of play, so there is no worries of Losing feeling or not feeling things with the intensity she normally does. Another suggestion, is just to use it for a little bit at a time, until she gets used to it. That thing is a strong little buggar, but when used right, WOW! I hope this helps the Mrs. There will be a lot of opinions and advice and suggestions out there for her. I was just talking from personal experience. Cheers!

Lots and lots of amazing suggestions on here! Top of my list are: 1) hands down my Hitachi Magic Wand!!! always a go to. That thing is...WOW!!! 2) glass dildo - textured on both ends (Glassworks I believe is the company) 3) princess butt plug is the last one oh wait...one more...pocket rocket is always a good go to for a quick release! Ok...I think that's it...for now

Thank you! I've been known to melt a few things and steam up the rest! I know that Sir doesn't complain in the winter time!

Lol!!! And when we do it right,it can melt the snow and cause LOTS of steam!

It'll become the 8th wonder of the world

You should see what we can do under those snow suits in our igloos

Hi again! I just messaged you on Introducing yourself LOL!!! Thank you for your advice and kind words on both messages. We will definitely check out AFF. We are currently on SwingingHeaven, M4, SLS and Cafe Desire. We are finding huge mix of people between the 4 sites. Honestly, we are not quite sure what to make with them all. Some of the profiles aren't very descriptive (written or photos). We understand the need for people to be discreet and we respect that, but at the same time, it's hard to want to get to know people with little or no information to start with. With that being said, we also like the sites for different reasons and the way they have designed them. At this point, I would have to say that M4 and Cafe are at the top of our list, but we have only just set up the other 2 and haven't used them to their full potential yet. If it is okay with you, we would like to connect with you on SH and M4. It' s nice to see that we connected with someone on here who is also on the other sites. Also, it has been great to connect with the female of the couple. We have been finding that it is usually the male who responds to any messages, texts, etc. Alex and I are big believers in doing all the LS stuff together in some way, so that we are connected and in the loop at all times. Looking forward to hearing from you! Cheers, Christina (and Alex)

Hi there everyone! We are trying to meet other couples online. We are currently on Menage a Quatre (M4's site), Cafe Desire and recently signed up for Swinging Heaven. For the Canadians out there, can you give us feedback on SDC, SLS and Kasidie? We are open to other suggestions as well. Thanks in advance for helping us out! Christina and Alex