76dragonflies

First experience we had was a week ago and we haven't been able to stop!! EVERY time we have an opportunity, we are on it!! The passion has been exponentially heightened. Perhaps ask the guy to practice wearing condoms on his own and give another chance. It could be that he just needs some time to get used to them.

I honestly can't tell a difference. And oddly, I prefer condoms. There is something, I have no idea what, but there is something incredibly erotic for me about condoms. Although we don't use them all the time vaginally, I require them for anal and for when we are with our other couple.

While there are many, many triggers for a woman to cum, I personally have never heard of this. However, there are detailed instructions online on how and where to run a woman's lower back that will have her dripping cum.

First, if you are uncomfortable and don't want to do this....DON'T! Being true to yourself is so important. Trust, understanding and maturity are vital in this lifestyle! If she is giving you ultimatums, it may be time to find someone else because she clearly doesn't respect your thoughts and feelings on the subject. Best of luck to you..

My boyfriend and I are exclusive with another couple and are lucky in that we all feel that kissing is a no go. For us, when it comes to the lifestyle, it is about sex. It's about the fun and we all feel there is too much emotion behind kissing. Even between us girls ( who are both bi), we won't kiss.

As a true bi female, I have found that it is very difficult to venture who is and who is not into you. Mostly all women will compliment another woman on damn near everything. "Wow, I wish my tits were that perky".. "those jeans make your ass look great". Are they flirting? Or, are they just being a girl because that's what we do? I'll be honest, I didn't have time to read all responses to your post so I apologize if I am doubling up on a question. Has your wife had a chance to spend time alone with these women to secure the "girl" thing? Glass of wine and a few giggles before hand perhaps....