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SweetNaughtyWif

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About SweetNaughtyWif

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  • Birthday 09/14/1969

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  1. Your story could almost be mine . Except we play with couples as well as the hotwifing thing, and both of us have battles with the green-eyed monster. Getting into swinging was both the best thing and the worst thing for my jealousy issues. Best thing because most of the time I can see and feel that the sex is just fun and entertainment for both of us - its demonstrated open-viewing trust. However there have been a couple of occasions when my doubts have been quite justified. My advice is to have some really solid rules/boundaries. We have some rock solid rules and they stand us in very good stead, one of our bedrock rules is that it, the swinging/scenario/party/person or persons etc must be fun for both of us. The times when one has been left out is the times when we have had problems. For myself, I am at ease when I know that we're both on exactly the same page. My other advice is the same as others have pointed out, get into your own head/heart and figure out where and why you feel like this. I did, it hurt and it took me places that are unpleasant but I feel I am getting better for it. It may also pay to work out your 'triggers', my hubby hates seeing me lying naked in another mans arms chatting after sex. For myself, I don't like it when there's a lot of whispering between my hubby and his partner during sex especially if I am right next to them (apart from anything else - it's rude!). I have also come to realise that it's okay to be territorial. Not jealous. I mean that it's okay to safe guard your partnership because not everyone will respect it. My hubby has had to step in when I've lost my head there for a second and I had to do the same thing for him. I hope this helps .
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