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  1. I’m a bit confused by that. Because of our connection, there is NO ONE I find as sexy as my husband. Swinging, to us at least, isn’t about finding someone who is “better” than him in the looks department, its about having fun adventures together. Also, beauty is way more than skin deep, even if you’re talking purely about sexual attraction. Some of the hottest experiences we’ve had have been with people that wouldn’t necessarily turn our heads on the street- it was when we hung out with them and got to know them a little bit that they really became sexy af. On the other hand, we’ve met gym rats or people who look like models who turn us off as soon as they open their mouths. Superficiality, cockiness, or general douchiness is way more of a turn off than stretch marks, a few extra pounds or lack of washboard abs ?
  2. Sjmar

    Odd situation

    Not odd at all, and certainly nothing to be ashamed about, I LOVE it! So incredibly erotic to guide my husband’s cock into another woman’s pussy, love to spread her pussy lips, lick her to get her nice and wet for him, look right into his eyes as he’s sliding in and out of her, grrrrrrr so fucking hot!! It’s one of the reasons I slightly prefer threesomes to couples play, because I feel like I can really devote the amount of attention I’d like to watching him
  3. Yes we would. Just as there are couples with a bi female who play with straight couples, understanding there won’t be any g/g play, as long as the bi gentleman understood that my hubby is straight, it wouldn’t be a problem ?
  4. It really just depends on the couple, and what elements of swinging turn you on. I “get” some of the reasons why others on this thread say they enjoy separate rooms, but we like to stay together. Especially because I’m bisexual and we love girl/girl play mixed in, and because we both get off on watching the other, we just enjoy an all over group dynamic as opposed to pairing off. I don’t see that changing for us. Do what works for you!
  5. And preferred transportation from Montego Bay airport to resort? Sandals will provide our transportation on return, so we only need one way.
  6. 78 days until our first Hedo trip (first LS trip of any kind)....soooo excited! So tell me, what are your favorite little spots, food, special cocktails, etc? Any tips, tricks, advice, recommendations, rave reviews? Help us get even more excited for this trip! (Oh and if it's helpful to know, we are splitting our time in Negril between Hedo and Sandals, so we will only be at Hedo for 3 nights). Tia :-)
  7. Lol! No, as much as I love a compliment, it def doesn't compare to playing with a gorgeous pussy and making her squirt all over the place!!
  8. Yes and yes to you both! And coupleinmd79 lol yes, while I've been hesitant and slow-moving when it comes to a lot, I'm never shy with the girls!! I've always been bisexual and absolutely adore women, I could lick pussy alllll day long ;-)
  9. Saints and Sinners in Philly doesn't allow smoking inside- it's one of the reasons we love it!
  10. I think honesty is always best :-)
  11. Another FUN night at the club! And definitely the naughtiest to date. Was dirty right out of the gate with a slutty fishnet dress that barely covered my ass and had my nipples poking though (hubby LOVED that). Had some fun talking and dancing (including some pole dancing) and was thrilled when our favorite playmates joined us. We decided to go down to the big group playroom and had lots of fun (I got to use my strap on, spitroasted my playmate as she was sucking her husband's cock) and a first for us was interacting with others down there. I was fondling another woman's tits while she was getting fucked (as I was getting my pussy licked) and while I was on my hands and knees sucking my hubby's cock a total stranger came up and started fingering my pussy!! lol I was too in shock to even see who it was- hubby saw it was a man and later told me he had wished he had the nerve to invite him to fuck me- oh myyyy!!!! (There's always next time.....) Lots more fun in between, but the big HOT ending to the night was as we were wrapping up the evening (probably 2:30am) a GORGEOUS (and very tipsy lol) tall blond and her husband sat down with us and our friends. She was verrry friendly and at one point asked me to stand up so she could see my "smoking hot body" and gave me a big handsy hug and a few ass and tit squeezes. After which she layed back and her husband started kissing her....and then playing with her pussy which was on full display in front of me. It was too beautiful to just watch so I turned to hubby and said "hold my wine babe", saw his eyes get big and and I leaned across and simply said "may I?" to both the blond and her husband. After a "yes please!" I started licking that gorgeous pussy (good lord did she taste good!!!). We have quite an audience as she is moaning and squirming under my tongue, her husband kissing her and rubbing his hard cock through his jeans, my friend sucking her tits, and then (this is a first!!) I made her squirt. Oh myyyyy did I make her squirt! Was fucking her with my fingers, knew I was hitting her g spot, and she fucking sprayed everyyywhere. Soaked my hand, soaked her dress underneath her, like straight up shooting out. Holy hell it was ridiculously hot! Needless to say hubby hasn't been able to keep his hands off me since, think I added a pretty big entry into his spank bank ;-) What a night!!
  12. Coupleinmd79 that makes sense. I guess with most of the sls profiles that I look through, couples all seem to be looking for either other couples to swap with, bisexual women for threesomes, or single males for MFM. I don't think I've ever seen anyone advertising that they are seeking a straight single woman (and as I was looking at the RSVP list for the club we are attending tonight I saw quite a few single straight women, which is why I guess it peaked my curiosity) I "get" that for a lot (most?) people in the LS, a big part of the attraction is simply having sex with new and different people as two of you mentioned. That's not really the case for my husband and I. We are much more about a shared experience than the act of being with someone different (which is why we don't even really get into "pairing off" and instead enjoy a group play dynamic, so that not only are we in the same room together but we're interacting with each other). And I only mention that because it may help explain my curiosity when it's something that's probably "duh!" for most of you lol. Love love all the different ways people are in the LS, all the different ways to play, there's def something for everyone!!
  13. Thanks for the straightforward and kind responses guys. I sure hope that nobody takes any offense to my question! For sure there are a million different ways people like to play, and I suppose I'm just curious about that ways that we don't play (as I've just never thought much about it!). Still so new to this, and appreciate all the knowledge here :-) Lol and on a side note, I think sometimes the idea of a stick straight woman makes me scratch my head, just because women are so incredibly beautiful! I don't get how we all aren't just touching and loving on each other all the time haha
  14. Touché costarica. As I prefaced with, totally coming from a place of ignorance as a newbie. Maybe it's just more common than I think for women to enjoy watching their man with another woman (without someone else to play with, as there would be with either a couple swap or a bi woman).
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