My husband and I have not had any other partners in our life before. We have been married 27 years and have talking about giving this a try for some time now. We decided it was time and we are headed to Hedo in August. We are real excited and nervous at the same time. Don't know if we will find anyone to swap or not. So, is it hard to see your partner with another person for the first time? Also, how do you know if the couple/person is into swinging and how do you go about asking if they are interested? Sorry for so many questions.