Thanks for guidance! Yeah the sites are pretty slow. The groups on SLS seem deserted. Along with your advice ive been looking up videos,info,research on a lot if this. Some people have a twisted idea of what this lifestyle is all about. Lol
But i found this OPENLOVE videos that have been kind of helpful. Its a swinger couple called Jon and Jackie and they can be interesting.
I have been looking for the meet and greets but they clubs that have it are pretty expensive. Is it typical for a club to charge 100$ per couple for one theme night? Its called Scarlet Ranch. It looks like a very classy place but not sure if i wanna throw away that money..