SnF2930

Thanks for guidance! Yeah the sites are pretty slow. The groups on SLS seem deserted. Along with your advice ive been looking up videos,info,research on a lot if this. Some people have a twisted idea of what this lifestyle is all about. Lol But i found this OPENLOVE videos that have been kind of helpful. Its a swinger couple called Jon and Jackie and they can be interesting. I have been looking for the meet and greets but they clubs that have it are pretty expensive. Is it typical for a club to charge 100$ per couple for one theme night? Its called Scarlet Ranch. It looks like a very classy place but not sure if i wanna throw away that money..

Thank you I guess there arent a whole lot of swinger clubs here in Colorado. It has actually been a little annoying trying to find people online also around my area. But ill keep with it i guess.

Thanks again guys! Not gonna lie it feels nice to hear compliments but even better that someone can relate! Is there any advice you could give us on safety tips, how to approach others, what to wear when going to a swinger club? Anything and everything helps! Thank you so much!

Hey guys! I have tried to reply a few times and each time i tried to post it failed. Anyways yeah it was me making myself think that. My husband tells me all the time how gorgeous i am but i am not sure why i feel this way. Thank you all for you input and advice i really do appreciate it. I think it may take me a minute to get used to showing my body to others lol. After all we have been together for 13 yrs lol (16,17 yrs old) and haven't been with anyone else.

Hey everyone! I appreciate all your replies! Thank you. I didn't mean to put my husband in such bad light. I guess I was having a weak moment. I took some of your advice and we talked this more and the specifics and how we both felt about our situation and our body image! He assured me that I am very beautiful and is still extremely attracted me and the stretch marks and weight have nothing to do with my beauty. He said if I didn't want to proceed with this then it would be no problem to quit. I feel better now that we are on the same page. I see now that it was just me and my insecurities. I let him know I would still like to explore. Thank you guys for the compliments! but most of all thank you for your help.

Wow! Thank you all for replying! I really appreciate each of your responses! Yeah we do have pros on Quiver and SLS ! Snf2930 on Quiver and Newnncurious on SLS. I was the first one to bring up the option of swinging. We haven't been having sex a lot and my needs weren't getting met! I have talked to him numerous times about why we weren't physical and he would just IDK. So I thought maybe he just doesn't want sex with me so I gave him the swinging option to maybe spice things up a little. I have always wanted to be with another woman also. I work out but it's just not helping with the loose skin part and it's been difficult to lose the lbs. You all are so supportive and thank you so much! We are still pretty awkward at this whole thing. So I guess we will learn as we go lol

My hubby and I decided to try swinging and see how it goes. Well as I was looking around at posts and pics from other people I started to realize there was no hope for me lol. I don't have a desirable body after having 3 kids and my body never bounced back. You pretty much need one if you decide to share your body with someone lol. My hubby is excited to start our new adventure but now I am bummed out that no one will want me...not even him. So now what?