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About phxswingcurious

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  • Birthday 09/02/1980

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    Tempe AZ
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  1. Kasidie profile buddyluv1980 as well. Thank you for whoever eventually reviews.
  2. UPDATE: Wow, guys. This has been way easier than I anticipated. First, I was finally able to get Kasidie to update my profile to single male. I agree with 2NoLimit that it would be creepy to have a single guy with a couples profile. Glad thats over! Feel free to check it out and give any feedback on the profile itself - buddyluv1980. I've also now met 2 couples and played with an absolute knockout last night- my first MFM! It was fantastic and they spoke very highly of my demeanor and how I handled being the extra male. Oh God it was so hot. They promised a validation soon as well, which should increase my odds even further. I've also been on 2 dates from singles sites. But whats even better, to me, is the unicorn I met. She is amazing and freaking adores me so that has been super fun and getting better every day. She thinks it's hot that I played last night and the four of us are now talking about meeting up together. She may not be a Unicorn for very long. So, yeah, life is freaking fantastic right about now. As far as the divorce goes, 3waypleasure, there is no custody battle because we never had kids. Just the dogs and a turtle. She gets the turtle, I get the dogs. Divorce papers are already filed and they are way more than fair to me. No judge. No court appearance. Super clean and easy. She knows and is ok with the fact that I'm a SM in the LS now and she thinks I'm going to be great at it. She still made me a birthday cake and her parents still got me a gift. I'm telling you, this is the coolest divorce ever. Kikonkrome - I will be seeing a therapist. That was good advice, thank you. Sorry if I jumped you a little bit before. The wording just rubbed me the wrong way, but I know your intentions were good.
  3. This is really encouraging and fantastic advice, thank you!...Except for kikonkrome. Don't tell me to "suck it up buttercup". That's offensive and you're just plain wrong about several things but I won't bother. By the way, update: I have gotten several emails from a particularly attractive couple who understand my situation and want to meet, and a certified, gorgeous UNICORN who likes to play with single lifestyle guys. We actually sexted for hours on Sunday and have plans to meet next weekend. I've also had GREAT luck on the singles sites. So I will continue to utilize both. And I'll try to introduce the LS to some of the women I meet on the singles sites. And kikonkrome...yeah, thanks, but I don't need your books on how to meet women either, buttecup.
  4. Great point! I am also getting out into the world of singles dating again, but I don't want to quit the LS totally. But great point and thanks for the honesty.
  5. Hello everybody! Could a few of you take a peek at my new SLS profile and let me know what you think? Buddyluv1980 Thank you!
  6. Anybody have any advice for a guy who was half of a swinging couple who is now separated, awaiting a finalized divorce? A few specific questions I have: Should I wait until the divorce is final or since we are already living apart and officially separated is that acceptable? Can I use the same online profiles, just putting a note saying I'm now single and removing all her stats and pics? I can't change the profile to show single male when it was started as a couple but I have paid for the annual membership on multiple sites. Also, I understand the sometimes difficult plight of the single male in the LS but does anyone have any specific insight as to how I can expect my experience to be different as a single male? Thanks in advance for the replies. And no need to feel bad for me about the divorce. It's mutual and unbelievably amicable. We are still and will remain friends.
  7. Hey everyone! Mind giving us some feedback? We want to have someone do some professional sexy pics for us. But please let us know what you think as it is right now. Bande2014 @ swinglifestyle.com
  8. So my wife and I decided to get checked for STIs before starting with swinging. She also switched from the pill to a copper IUD to quit messing with her hormones and for more foolproof bc. When she did that, they tested her for gonorrhea, chlamydia, and syphilis (did I spell any of those right?) and all were negative. Last week I was tested for all the Heps, all the HSVs, and HIV and ALL ARE NEGATIVE!!! I have saved the test result to my phone lol. So we have our first date a week from today and all 4 of us text flirty and naughty things to each other already. Would it be hot for me to announce I'm disease free? Or should I just sit on this info and have it if asked? I kinda think it's hot but I don't want them to think I'm trying to talk them into bareback or anything. I do want her to feel comfortable swallowing my cum though lol.
  9. My wife squirts almost every time she cums from oral. When we first started dating I would make her cum with my dick when her legs were over my shoulders and when she would squirt, it would all pool up in between her tits. If she had not peed right beforehand, it would be slightly yellow and smell a bit like urine. But if she peed right before, it would be color and odorless. She got grossed out one time by it when it was particularly yellow (she forgot to pee first) and never came like that on my dick again. A few years later when I decided to get much better at cunnilingus, I started telling her that I wish I could make her squirt like she used to but in my mouth and she thought I was crazy. I kept trying to tell her that it can't be pee if she just went but to no avail. It took a lot of trust and convincing, but she finally came in my mouth and we haven't looked back. I usually try to swallow as much of it as I can since she swallows mine every time I cum in her mouth. It's only fair. ☺️ But much like her with some of my loads, there's no way I can swallow all of it! I can tell you from repeated personal experience that this fluid is NOT pee as long as she has just peed. If it has been a little while, there might be SOME urine in there, but even then, it's not just pee, without question. The trick, after warming her up with foreplay and light pussy licking, is a combination of sucking gently on the clit while flicking it rapidly with your tongue while also pursing your lips right around the clit. My wife likes it best just above the clit, on top of the hood. But if I'm anywhere near the spot, it's 10 seconds of flicking and WHOOSH, Niagra falls. Then I go back to the vulva for a bit, suck n flick the clit 10 more seconds, GUSH, Angel Falls. Seriously, sometimes we fold a towel twice (so it's 4 layers thick) and when we're done, the bed is still soaked! Like I said, I try to swallow her essence but It is kinda tricky to catch her juices in my mouth because I have to lower my lower jaw to catch it. If I just keep sucking and flicking, she squirts on my chin then down to the towels. We still have not been able to replicate the squirting onto her chest from penetrative sex but we just started swinging. Hopefully a new guy will reawaken that in her.
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