TwoCuriousOnes

When you put it that way it was definitely a major success. Just more curious if other guys here can relate to the first time being an accidental quickie lol.

Thanks! We have both been thinking about it non-stop and can't wait to go back. Anybody else have the issue of the first time being too quick from all the new excitement of it? Or did I just fail miserably lol. Glad I at least stuck around for a round 2.

I'm sure there are plenty of people who discussed this, but I couldn't find anything much on a quick search, so apologies in advance. We went to our first (really second, but first time we went, we left very shortly after). The experience this time was great, but the biggest issue was how excited I got once a couple walked in on us and watched us go at it. We didn't swing that night but just the whole atmosphere and exhibition was such a huge turn on, I finished way too quickly. Luckily, the wife got hers twice beforehand, but as soon as the other couple walked in, I had about a minute before finishing up lol. I really feel like it's natural for something so new, but feel like maybe other people's stories or discussion might help. We were able to take it slowly afterward and get me back up, but still wish my performance matched up with what we normally have at home. Any words from you all?

Thanks for the info! Couple of quick questions again: Where do we find out info about meet and greets? Specifically in New York? Also, what is the average age range when it comes to the swing club scene, or the meet and greets?

Thanks for all the advice, we appreciate it!

Sorry for the late reply, all. We appreciate everybodies response! What exactly is a meet and greet? In regards to going to a club, have you had any bad club experiences? We were considering the club route first with the intentions of just playing with each other and being comfortable being naked in front of strangers. Just to give a quick description of us so anyone can best answer or respond to us: Mrs: I am 29 years old, shy yet eager to create these new experiences with my husband. My main interests are sex with another couple and taking part in an orgy. Trying to get an idea how to gather up the courage to actually participate in such events. Mr: 30 years old, shy as well and not one too easily involved in small talk. The wife and I have been speaking about doing these things and an MMF for over a year and finally think the time is coming to try it. We are both not very social which we know can be a problem but once we know someone, we can get along with many different types of people. We are hoping for the first official experience to either be a swap or MMF. Hope to hear from you all soon! Feel free to ask us anything that may help better give you an idea how to advise us.

Hope everyone is well! Me and my hubby are very new and are looking for some swinger guidance. We are very interested in swinging but I am a very shy person. We are both interested in going to a club but I feel like I'm going to flake out and also overthink any situation we come across. Any tips or forums we can look into, to help me feel a bit more comfortable?