silver1958

I've read all the replies here and can say that I agree with most of them. Lots of thoughts and reasons. We have found it often difficult to meet up with a couple where everyone is equally impressed. That has been true for both of us. We discuss everything between us and I know the Mrs. has "taken one for the team" as you call it, as I also have, but less often to be sure. When I say that it doesn't mean we didn't have fun, nor that we didn't enjoy the sex, just someone may not have been as attractive in ways that we like. Maybe they felt the same way about us. So, if you had fun with the lady and you said the guy was fun in the bedroom, where is the problem? That's what it's all about. As you progress in the LS you might try hooking up with a single male (or bi female) where you can have total control of who you meet. But only if both of you are in total agreement.