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TerritorialLove

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About TerritorialLove

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    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 05/29/1987

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  • Relationship Status
    Couple
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    South Africa
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    xx/xx/xxxx
  1. My girlfriend and I have been dating for just under a year now. We have already talked about it and.. she's the one.. once I get out of a sticky situation I'm in and save up a bit.. we're going to get married. Sex with her is amazing. Mind-blowingly awesome. She is full of life and never told me no for trying new things. She is into everything under the sun... besides threesomes. So one day 2 buddies of mine were talking about how they are going to hook up with a few girls this weekend and have threesomes. I tell her everything so after telling her the story of my buddies...naturally this topic came up. A little information to preface this. She is the extremely jealous type. I mean any girl I look at or that looks at me - she would get pissed off and stomp off or make a snide comment to me. So back to what we were discussing. So she said that she is willing to try out ffm. So I tell her that the pleasure I derive from it would be to watch her being pleased by another woman - I don't want to do much with the other woman, more of a lesbian couple and a guy kind of deal. She says no, and wants to please me and wants me to try it. After much begging and pouting she got me to admit I would love a threesome but with me actually doing something meaningful with the other woman - i.e. penetration. We established rules and all the parameters. Slowly she pops in the odd question about what would I feel if we had another guy instead of girl? In the end of the conversation she said she wants to try both - mmf and ffm. Now me being the jealous type as well made a few hee haws about another guy with her as I'm afraid she might get carried away. Then she insists that we do both. I agree. Awesome. Next day, she changes her mind and says that we only going to do ffm and she picks the girl. Everywhere we walk she makes me look at a girl and asks if this girl looks good to me, etc. Then, it becomes a joke. Her jealous streak begins again and she asks me once and for all of we should kill the idea or not. I, being made to look like the bad one, agree that if our relationship needs the spice we will have all three some - only ffm. Every now and then she pops a joke or hint here and there about threesomes i.e. different positions I'm into, if I prefer redheads, etc. but when I question it she says I'm not interested, and why is it bothering me. And then she says "jokes" at the end. I have tried asking her outright and she always says "hey if it makes you happy I'll do it since I'm not comfortable with it." She went from" we definitely doing it since you've always wanted it" and "we the couple that tries stuff" and "I don't want u to live with regrets, if you want to do it do it in front of me" to "I'll do it just to make u happy. Oh and during the three some I was planning to walk out and take a step back while you and the other woman finish up.. as long as I'm there and you don't do it behind my back." My question then is - does she need a little nudge or push? Does she want it? Or is this just a jealous girlfriend move to test our relationship? And how much I love her?
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