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  1. I participated in a DVP with a wonderful married couple multiple times. We would only get together once a month as the wife considered it her husband and hers "special date night" and wanted it to always be special. We started doing DVP after a couple of times being together and I'll admit at first it sort of weirded me out being so close to another man but soon realized this was all about the woman being pleasured. The husband was straight like me but he loved bringing his wife to sexual ecstasy. It was a HUGE turn on to see how the wife would just get lost in fucking and cumming. I've never experienced DVP again and I do so miss it. Slow and slippery was our motto.
  2. I was with a couple where the wife applied Foria Pleasure about 30 minutes before play began. I asked her what it was and she explained that is was cannabis oil with other oils and that the membranes in the female vagina absorbed the oils and it allowed her vagina to relax and become more sensitive to sensations. She applied two squirts on the outside (lips, clitorsis) and two squirts on her fingers where she then slide them into her vagina as far as she could go. Men's penises don't absorb the oil so it does nothing for the man. That being said the woman had intense orgasms and fucked most of the evening until she was exhausted. Based on my experience with a woman using it I would recommend trying it if you are in a recreational state.
  3. I've only participated in MFM's. Part of the process of the three people getting to know each other is to find out what each other wants to explore and what are expectations. So when I've participated in MFM's it's fleshed out (no pun) beforehand that the three of us want to try DP or DVP, so of course every one of my MFM experiences resulted in either. In fact I've only tried DP once and it was a disaster. The husband was smaller than average and unfortunately he couldn't get much of himself into his wife's anus while he was on the bottom. We just gave up. All the other MFM's (not that many), the woman (with the man's hearty approval) wanted to try DVP. I'm straight but don't care if a husband's junk is touching mine because it's all about the woman. DVP seems to be for the women I've done it with an intense orgasm for her. It's not bad for the guys either once you all relax and get the logistics right.
  4. The mfm trysts that I participated in hotel rooms were always more comfortable. The couple would book the room, arrive early to allow themselves some dress up time. They would text me the hotel name and room number and time to meet. When I arrived I text’d my arrival and proceeded to the room. Sometimes a couple would want to meet at the hotel bar or a non-affiliated restaurant before going to the room. I personally don’t like to eat before play unless some time elapses and I bring my toothbrush. The less any guy knows about you personally the better you’ll feel about protecting your privacy. I met a couple once where the woman wanted things to happen “organically”. This approach to me does not guarantee a successful fun event. The more you plan ahead and discuss the what if’s the better experience you two will have. It’s great to have a connection with the other man (sexual and/or personality) but until you spend a lot of time with him sexually and non-sexual he is not your buddy, he is an accessory to your sexual adventures. Always err on the side of caution.
  5. I think using a hotel for your first swinging experience is a good idea. First off you don't need to worry about what the neighbors might think or incur any of the usual interuptions one experiences at home (phone ringing, older kids coming home instead of staying at their sleepover they told you they were going to do etc...). The last thing you need to worry about is the hotel staff. They have no idea nor do they care. I do think that you should be the one reserving and staying in the hotel room as opposed to going to the guy's room, just for the very reason you state. You want to be comfortable and relaxed and in control of the situation. If the other guy doesn't like it there are plenty of other men who would understand and respect your choices. I've had a handful of mfm experiences (wish there were more!) and the hotel room meet up I think helps keep your personal life in the vanilla world separate from your extracurricular activities. My opinion only.
  6. Thank you all for the feedback. We will see where life takes us, it's always an adventure .
  7. My wife and I are not swingers. We are happy and have been together for about 10 years. Prior to meeting her I had participated (single male) in a couple of mfm threesomes and they were great experiences. In the past couple of years I've brought up the idea of us inviting another man into our bedroom. She indicated that she isn't interested but if I wanted to have a threesome to go ahead. I've told her I do want a threesome but only with her as that is what turns me on. That's where I left it. When we have sex 50% of the time we talk about an mfm fantasy. It's not difficult to tell that the scenario turns her on big time so I know that at least she likes it in fantasy form. She questioned when I brought it up previously how would I feel about seeing another man have sex with her? I told her that's the point and it would turn me on but she questioned my response. If we don't experience an mfm I'm fine with it, it's not worth the happiness of my marriage. But is it okay to still fantasize about it without concerns that she thinks I'm "working" her? That's not the case, it's just fun to at least imagine.
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