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SteadyAsWeGo41

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About SteadyAsWeGo41

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    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 03/27/1978

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  1. I tend to agree with kikonkrome here. I know from personal experience how hard it is for me to be as comfortable being flirty and touchy-feely with other women as my wife is with other men. I have always been very respectful of women and it didn't feel natural for me to flirt with someone else. I prefer to find couples where the wife is more aggressive so I don't necessarily have to be bc it's not my comfort zone. If the guy is telling you through text/ chat that you turn him on then he probably wants you to somehow assure him that you're ok with him being more flirty. If you decide to see this couple again, try being the aggressor and see if that changes his demeanor.
  2. When we first started my wife absolutely didn't want to do same room. She didn't like being watched and she didn't want to see, and subsequently "compare" herself to the other woman. Plus, she liked the fact that she didn't feel like she was putting on a show and could just be herself with the other guy. So no, I don't see it as a red flag either. I think people are all comfortable with different things. I would just ask her why. If her reasons make sense and you are both ok with separate room play, I don't see why it would stop anything. At least not at this point.
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