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UnsureFuture15

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About UnsureFuture15

  • Rank
    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 11/10/1987

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  • Relationship Status
    Married Female
  • Location
    Utah
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    xx/xx/xxxx
  1. Thank you everyone. I'm glad to hear I'm not crazy in being upset with his tantrum. I gladly accept all your suggestions and will be setting up ground rules with him tonight. I accept any other rules or guidance you all have. I'm going to let him know I feel two nights a month, planned at the beginning of the month is sufficient for the LS. If we get to a point where we met one or more couples that we are comfortable with and would like for them to become a regular relationship, we can discuss the possibility of bringing them into our home after bedtime for further Meetups.
  2. He's also been mad lately that I'm not as active as he is on our profiles, but I work a full time job, go to school full time, and do all the care for our child. I try not to let it bother me, but it does.
  3. We've been in the lifestyle on and off for six years. Stopped during pregnancy and first two years of child's life. Lately he's been getting mad that we can't swing every weekend. When we discussed getting back into the lifestyle, I said maybe one to two weekends a month. He agreed. Now he gets angry that we get messages about parties or guys that want to meet up, but we can't because his mom or my mom can't babysit overnight on short notice. Our mom's are great babysitters and love to, but I don't think it's fair to call them Saturday morning to ask if they can have a sleepover Saturday night. Also, my husband won't ask his mom, so I have to. The example that has me livid with him occurred last night. Him "so my mom can't babysit tomorrow night? " Me "no, she has your niece all day tomorrow" Him "well did you ask?" Me "no, because she said 'I'm going to be exhausted Saturday because I'm going to have ivy all day. So it'd be hard to have a sleepover'" Him "well you should ask her" Me "why? " Him "there's a party tomorrow night" Me "I don't want to pressure your mom if she has ivy scheduled, especially since your mom is having a sleepover with our daughter next weekend. " Him "fine, whatever. Don't you know anyone else who can babysit?" Me "my parents are our of town. Your sister can't (she has a heart condition), can you think of anyone? " Him "no, I guess our night is ruined. " Me "when my sister is back from overseas she can." Him " that doesn't help us right now, does it? " Me "sorry" From that point on, he didn't talk to me for the rest of the night. He was the one who wanted to start trying for kids when got married and now he's mad that we can't swing every weekend. I don't trust non family babysitters. Next weekend, I'm suppossed to take him on a ghost investigation for his birthday, but I feel like I should just cancel it so he can plan some swinging thing since that's all he cares about anymore. Am I overreacting in his behavior last night? Thanks in advance.
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