Getting old can be depressing sometimes if you over think it. I've had some similar feelings lately. Yes, even men can worry about this stuff. As a couple getting older (early 40s), we we are mindful to be healthy and active. We also find that as we age we are still mostly attracted to people our own age. When we attend local hotel parties or travel to Hedo, we see see a large and friendly representation of 60 year olds having the time of their lives and making great memories. For us it's comforting to know that if we take care of ourselves and are lucky enough to enjoy good health, we will have a happy life and many years left to make memories in the lifestyle. That's just my perspective, of course. I've always been attracted to older women so there's plenty of people like myself that think you look better than ever.
Chris