Hello all, I am a 30 year old that has been married for 12 years and am madly in love with my husband, however we have been talking about exploring things together. I have had a sexually past prior to marriage; hubby on the other hand has not so we are trying to find a way to let him have the experience of others with me. I have done some research on the computer and watched some shows but I now have a million more questions then I did before researching. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Some things I am worried about is that I am not the same body type I was when I got married. I have gained weight I am trying to lose it and it is slowly coming off where as hubby we will refer to him as C is in shape and is very attractive so I am scared that people will want him but not me. I know that if and when we take the dive into this lifestyle a main rule will be we always play together. C has always told me that he is more in love with me today then when we married and there is no other woman besides me. I just don't want to limit him because of me. All the shows we have watched have very skinny woman. Is this something that I need to worry about or am I over thinking things? Which I tend to do.
Do we always have to swap or can you just do threesome? A fantasy of C's is to watch me with another woman to start with and then he join. Is that something that happens? I have been with other woman when I was younger prior to C so that doesn't bother me.