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occpl

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About occpl

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  • Birthday 12/08/1970

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  1. I have always fantasized about watching my very reserved wife give herself up to someone else and watching as she gets Creampied. I have no urge to "clean her up" after, but I want to slip inside her and add my own to the pie.
  2. I've tried holding my wife's head. It feels to me like I'm interfering with her free motion to do what she does SO well. I end up just running my fingers through her hair occasionally. It feels absolutely incredible as is, so I don't want to mess with it. I can't answer for your husband or friend, but that's how I feel. I hope this helps.
  3. See, this is why I was talking about it all. She seems to go back and forth a bit. But I just can't get over how she looks at other women. I'm split 50/50 and was hoping someone would say something exactly this blunt to tell me either way. Thank you very much SW_PA. everything else I recieved was encouraging me to push but wasn't saying one way or the other. But you think it's all in my head. I will go back to trying to ignore the looks and such because I think I'm in agreement with you. As for the add, it will disappear very shortly. I may have misunderstood when someone told me to have it ready to show her that people are out here that would be interested. I think maybe I am too optimistic on a timeline to get her talking about things. Thank you all for being so very straight forward. I'm a bit dense at times and need it between the eyes to understand.
  4. Ok, if you've read my thread "Curious about the lifestyle" you will know that I'm working on helping my wife open up about her feelings towards other women. Per some of the advice I've received about getting a profile set up on both here and a "meet swingers" site, I did just that. I opened up a profile for us on swinglifestyle.com. Now the interesting part. I met up with an old friend from high school at the reunion a few weeks ago. Him and I are both working on houses and have planned on getting together to check each other's projects out. His wife was wearing something very low cut and you couldn't help but look at her incredible breasts. I kind of fantasized at the time that they were swingers, and hoped that my wife noticed her also. About 2 days ago, I got a reply from the profile I put up. This was a shock after all my experiences on dating sites when I was single. Anyway, it was this couple. She has started playing with women and would like to get together based on our profile. It turned out that I had called him earlier that day about meeting up that night to look at the houses. I figured out the next day that it was them for sure, but they still don't know it's us on the site. How can I broach this subject and say " hey, you know that profile you mailed... Guess what, it's us!" I'm a bit concerned that if I wait too long they'll think I'm stringing them along. But I also don't want to go too far yet as my wife, although fantasizing about this, still has not opened up about it. I also worry that they aren't exactly my wife's type. What should I do? I never expected to actually get a response from a profile.
  5. Today we were standing in the laundry room waiting for the dryer to finish. She was right in front of he window looking out. I came up behind her and reached around to her front rubbing her breasts and said "we could put on quite a show from here". Her response was to give a little laugh. And it wasn't a "yeah right" kind of laugh. It was more of a normal laugh. I hope that's a good sign. I kind of like what CoupleinMD79 said about watching swing and putting ourselves in that position. Getting my wife to talk about anything is hard. I think this is going to be a long arduous process. LoL
  6. I did mention that I have the standard guy fantasy of 2 women, and this may be a way for both of us to explore our fantasies. I know there are more, but I'd be happy to help her get that basic one going. I caught her ogling a girl wearing spandex this afternoon. I really wanted to say something, but the kids were in the car. Ugh... LoL
  7. Thank you for the responses. I would never surprise her with anything. That would be "bad" on the Egon scale (from Ghostbusters). When I catch her looking, I usually say something about how she seems to like girls more than I do. She gets embarrassed and that's usually the end of it. Every once in a while she tells me some girl is really pretty. I can't tell if she's fishing for me to agree or if I'm supposed to do the standard "not as pretty as you". I usually do the latter. Maybe I should tell her I think so too and see what happens. I think I've been afraid to go that route just in case I'm making more of it than it is to her. I have to admit that I never really cared for the idea of two girls until this. It now gets me really excited to think of watching her explore her feelings with another girl. Based on the girls she picks out, I can almost see it. Then one day i had a realization. It was that maybe through this we could simultaneously knock out both our fantasies. Yes... I have the standard guy fantasy of two women. Sorry... I'm simple. LoL. Anyway, I just need to get the guts to actually push past that little teasing and see what happens. I'll have to keep you all posted on how it's going.
  8. Hello everybody. I'm J and my wife is S. We have never been part of anything together. She doesn't talk about her life with her ex, but it makes me wonder if some things were done... No weird feelings or anything. LoL. Myself, well I'm a normal red-blooded American guy and I have always had fantasies... Since S and I got married I have caught her looking at women. Now I know you're going to say all women do that. I'm know they do. I can tell the difference in the look in her eyes when it's a "she has a nice dress on" look and that "18 year old guy staring at the cheerleader with a major hard-on" look. My wife does the latter. Also, we watch the "interesting" shows, as we call them, late at night on Cinemax. She gets extremely hot when we watch a 2 girl scene. Now the catch... S is Asian, raised in Korea. In their culture fantasies are not talked about. They're just left to hope that they will eventually happen. My question to all of you is, how can I help her open up about her fantasies and hopefully move on to fulfilling both of ours. All it would take is a threesome with the right woman and we would be going. Thank you for your advice in advance.
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