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ExperienceNFun

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  • Birthday 02/14/1967

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  1. Wow, I haven't had a chance to play as much as I'd like to lately, but your story makes me feel a lot better about relaxing with a drink and a good book on Saturday nights! Sounds like it's time for you to find a new group of people who don't care who sits at the "cool kids table".
  2. I've definitely had some fun in these situations as well, I think it has kind of become it's own subset of the lifestyle. I am not into the Hollywood version with humiliation, etc., but if a husband gets off on watching I'm more than happy to oblige. Video is fun too
  3. I think it happens to everyone. I've had times I couldn't come, and I know sometimes after an extended period of play I've kind of had the equipment start to go to sleep. But these have been after pretty extended sessions, hot-tubbing, foreplay, etc. Nothing is made to last forever, and I'm sure if you think about it, play time in most situations mean that the men are usually staying aroused for longer than normal periods of time. Your brain needs some of that blood too - maybe it's a survival mechanism!
  4. I can see the value of certifications when it comes to making sure people are real, but have found a lot of people really don't like the kiss and tell aspect. I've seen a few people who only want to meet certified people only, but those are pretty rare, and makes me wonder what bad experiences they must have had along the way.
  5. The same things that I think turn everyone on in the lifestyle - a variety of partners, meeting others who enjoy their sexuality, and just plain sex! There's a different dynamic with a couple than there is in dating a single woman, as others here have posted. It is a hell of a lot of fun to get to know people, click as individuals, and then have everyone comfortable enough to start shedding clothes and satisfy our urges. When it works, it works...nobody is compatible with everyone, but I think I've probably met more nice, well-socialized people in the lifestyle than out of it, truth be told.
  6. I would never ask this question, I think it signifies that you don't understand this is something most couples do TOGETHER, as 99% of the profiles state.
  7. I agree with all of the advice dispensed here, and it made me think of how I would react as a single guy. We all say things that fall flat, the joke that doesn't go over, or don't express ourselves well online. But I think your "gut" is right. What does that have to do with anything, why should it stick out? He might not understand what the lifestyle is about, and only the "taboo" part of it turns him on. If you've decided not to play, I'd just politely say that you aren't sure things are going to work out. If he "gets" things, he'll realize you are not interested and no means no.
  8. As a single who has been at this for a while, I sometime wonder how many couples "last"...LOL. I think most people, couples or singles, do this until they have a bad experience, their lifestyle just doesn't allow them time anymore due to other commitments, or some other non-swinging reason gets in the way. I've been involved for a little over 10 years and of the friends, both couples and singles that are no longer active, life just kind of got in the way. Maybe at some point they'll be back. That being said, I think a lot of singles do meet someone, or in the case of a lot of the guys, don't really "get" the lifestyle and eventually figure out it isn't just an easy way to get laid and move on. I can't ever really imagine myself dropping out as long as I am in good enough health to be able to perform adequately. It's too much fun when you finally learn how to do it right!
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