I can only tell what I have experienced. I was involved with a couple for a number of years. We really seemed to fit together because the husband was very loving and was almost submissive in his compassion for her. I entered the relationship as a dominate partner. She liked to be submissive in bed and he loved to watch as she served sexually. Before the night was over he would lay and caress her and they would then make passionate love to each other. Of course I loved the erotic side but I also love watching as they showed their deep affection and love for each other. I always respected their marriage and never forgot that she was his wife and his lady!!!